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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Seems like I've been running into a lot of the same cases.
Don't take it the wrong way or anything, but it's the truth; there are people who would ask me or others about what they should do in these situations, and I have to admit that I played some part in it myself. It's hard to make friends, sure, but you have to give it a try. If you don't try, then you won't be able to make friends. There are plenty of people out there, so I'm sure that you'll be able to meet someone nice. And I'm not sure what you mean sa pamamagitan ng "lost [your] best friends", but if you mean that you haven't been in contact, try talking to them again. I'm sure that they'll appreciate it. If you get back with them, spend some time with them somewhere, like either at their house or at yours.
Maybe instead of headphones, you could listen to something on the radio without them? Or listen to any other device. I know you want to escape the yelling, but as I've read, it seems that madami just comes up when you don't answer them. I've had my own personal experience from it before, and all I could say was that the music was either too loud or that I was too Nawawala in thought. As for walking outside, maybe you should take a walk around your neighborhood? If you don't feel comfortable, walk to a corner and back to your house a few times. That's what I do when I feel like walking or letting things out. If someone wants to sumali them, don't think that saying "no" will make you seem rude. It's not that it's rejecting, it's how you say it. If you say it like, "Go away!", then it could be taken that way. If you say things politely, like "May I please be alone? I'm not in the mood right now, and I'd like to resolve it on my own.", then people will get the better idea. If they take it the wrong way when you use the latter, I would think that they're either over-sensitive or something was sinabi wrong. It's hard to word things correctly sometimes, but you can't give up on it. There are times where you need to be assertive and avoid aggression.
Is it possible to do your hobbies elsewhere, where there is no noise? If so, I think that it would be much easier for you. I know that I sinabi you shouldn't, but if you can't go anywhere and you absolutely can't take it, try out the headphones. Maybe it could help you forget about it. If you don't want to take the chance, let yourself become immersed within your inner thoughts. In other words, daydream. I have a habit of this, and someone could talk to me or walk past me and I wouldn't know it. The school work I'm sure isn't fun, since I'm still going through it, but you have to admit that it at least gives you something to do. I think that it's better than sitting there and doing nothing. Well, that's my silver lining, anyway; you can look at it how you see fit.
Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other tanong that you may have.
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