sagutin ng tanong na ito

payo Tanong

Ok, so I need advice!

So I have this friend and she's nice and everything but aaah! She sometimes is just sooo ARGH! I mean she's always Pagsulat in chat speak and that annoys me soooo much and then when we are talking of something serious she just says "ok lol" and she is really egocentric, like it seems that she doesn't care about anyone else's problems and then she comes crying to all our mga kaibigan and especially with me. And also just today I was speaking to her about my frustrations and again she sinabi "ok lolz" and started talking about "hut guyz" and ipinapakita me pictures of them. Also she's like a bubble gum, she calls me everyday, copies eveything I do, if I like something she likes it too, etc.

And really I don't know what to say to her. I can't tell her she's tedious because she will get mad at me and I think that she's fun. But she is calling me her BFF and I have just met her for less than a taon and I have this friend that has been 7 years with me and she thinks I'm not paying a lot attention to her...

What to do?

huddysmacked posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas

next question »

payo Sagot

dollyllama247 said:

Wow. Thats tough. Just tell her to stop. But not yell at her. just say "Could you please stop. That's really bothering me." Hope i could help.

select as best answer

posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas

HuddyBrave said:

Ok well I had a friend like that and I got VERY mad at her one araw and when she asked me why I was mad I told her all of the things that made me angry but not in a rude way but just like nicely. I learned this a long time nakaraan that if you use "I" statements that it is better for not making someone angry. Like if you say "I hate it when we are talking about something and you say lol"Or something like that she will most likely get angry but if instead you say ," I feel that when I am talking about something that is very important it is kinda rude to say lol." That is what i do I know its hard to figure out what to say but that is what i do and mabye you could try and drop subtile hints about her doing stuff like you like once someone was doing that to me and I talked to some of my toher mga kaibigan with her standing there and at my school we call the people who follow and copy eachother 'sheep' so I sinabi something like,"dont you hate it when there are tupa all over?? I like it when people are their own person......"That is what I would try...

Please dont hate me if that doesnt work out....

Hope I helped :)

select as best answer

posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas

renesmee13 said:

well huuuuuuuum lets see you should tell her how you feel

select as best answer

posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas

snake2315 said:

well ithink u should talk to her about how you fell about this situation and listen to her because on of the most important things in life is being able to comunicate to each-other:)

select as best answer

posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas

boredhedgehog said:

hmmm
she sounds like my ex-BFF
i just waited and we seperated....
now i have a new BFF and she is jelous.....
idk what to do eather

select as best answer

posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas

aholic said:

You should give her the "ok, lolz" back when she wants to talk about something... and then you should talk madami to your old friend and maybe say to your annoying friend that "no sorry I can't talk right now, I'm with..." so she would get the message - that she is not your bff and egocentric.

select as best answer

posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas

next question »

Cookies help us bring you Fanpop. By using Fanpop, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More Got It!