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Relationship problem...

I've been dating this guy for about four months, and he's really sweet and all, but he's a bit, fast. He's asked me to marry him several times, and every time I don't say yes, he gets hurt and doesn't talk to me for the rest of the araw or several days. We're only 17. Yesterday he asked me if I would have a kid with him, and I sinabi no, and he got really upset and even hinted that we should break up, because I won't have a kid with him. We're only 17! My stomach hurts from all this anxiety, this has happened several times before. I'm starting to wonder if it's worth it.

Is it?
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EgoMouse said:
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Just four months? It just already started. He's already sending red flags. Get out of there when you have the chance.
I highly doubt he has the money, the job, the responsibilities, and the mindset to become a father already. Fatherhood is serious. You're also probably too young to become a mother.
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summer448 said:
In a relationship there should be mutual respect and understanding for ones feelings. If he is trying to pressure you into things and then pagganap childish after you refuse then it isn't worth it.
You deserve someone who will ilipat through a relationship with you at a speed that is comfortable with the both of you.
I would try to talk it out first before you go and break it off. Although if he keeps asking you like you say he is then I doubt he would consider going at a slower pace, but you don't know unless you try ~
I hope you feel better and i hope this helped a little.
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