Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.
In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get comments like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?
What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad or harmful.
Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things you can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because you might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is that being bi IS really hard. You should be careful with gay jokes, or don't use them at all, and understand that GLBT people have a harder time than you do about being straight.
Just remember that we're all people, and our differences don't really matter.
In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get comments like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?
What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad or harmful.
Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things you can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because you might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is that being bi IS really hard. You should be careful with gay jokes, or don't use them at all, and understand that GLBT people have a harder time than you do about being straight.
Just remember that we're all people, and our differences don't really matter.
Many people feel that pag-ibig hurts...that it's only gonna bring pain and sadness. But to tell you the truth...love won't do that. pag-ibig is when everything is perfect and no matter how bad your araw is you still find a reason to smile because you feel like you have the most amazing person in your life. Yeah you may be going through some problems in this relationship but let me tell you something...Love conquers all. No matter how bad the situation is you can get through it together. Don't let a silly little argument or what anyone says about your relationship go in front of your judgement on your own relationship. And I'm going to give payo to those people who Nawawala someone and sees that person with someone else...Listen if you truly loved them you would let them be happy with whoever. Don't interfere. You will be happy and so will they. And plus it will give you peace at mind. Dream Big. pag-ibig Forever. Live like today is your last day
my problem is that my parents don't understand me well , and I don't see my bigger sister
i have a little sister , but i can't relate to her , and i have an older brother who helps me a lot but not enough.
i'm always depressed and i just listen to music all the time , actually music helps me a lot to express my anger , sadness , happiness .
i really Love Avril Lavigne because she is the only person who helped me in hard time , her music is so inspiring And meaningful .
and then , i have you fanpop users , you are my only family , my only friends , and my only hope.
so , please tell me what can i do to get rid of the negativity .
Thanks for your time,
Tamara