The countless hours wasted debating these tanong that could be better spent with the children this pagtatalo is about, this is what’s prompting this blog.

To begin with, all of the pagtatalo about whether we should blame the child or adolescent who “came out”, who allowed a nude picture to be taken (or took it) of themself, who sexted a picture, who aired an argument on facebook or other social media, or . . . . . . . is all sort of pointless.

The fact of the matter is, they’re children and adolescents, NOT ADULTS. They think and act like children and adolescents. Current research on brain...