Well, Joss Whedon said shortly after Chosen aired that Buffy was in love with Spike the moment their hands clasped.
Jane Epensen once had the theory said to her that Spike did believe that Buffy loved him, but he only said it to get her out of that cave.
And I do think that she loved him in season six. The one moment that stands out to me is the last scene of Dead Things when she says, 'You always hurt the one you love.' Repeating what Spike says to her.
Also, the first few times they have intimate contact she is the one who intiates it, Spike doesn't. In Once More With Feeling, she follows him into the alley where they first kiss. In Tabula Rasa, he leaves but she goes after him again. In Smashed, she is the one who kisses him first. The second time they have sex, she comes to his crypt and intitates it.
And in season seven there were many instances where it showed that she loved him. Most of that season her sole focus was him. She took care of him, she protected him, she saved him. She ran to him in Lies My Parents Told Me, their were tear tracks on her face when she got to Wood's garage.
Then their was the scene with Cassie, the seer, when she tells Spike, 'She'll tell you, some day she'll tell you.' The only thing that could possibly have meant was 'I love you.'
And Buffy never says I love you to someone unless she actually means it. She never said it to Riley. She doesn't throw those three words around lightly, she even says that herself.
Then there was the scene in First Date where she tells Willow, 'Why does everyone think I'm still in love with Spike?' That implied that she did love him.
The scene at the end of First Date when she tells Spike, 'I'm not ready for you to not be here.'
The one scene in season seven that tells me that she was no longer in love with Angel was when she says, 'I loved him more than anything.' She used the past tense of the word, loved. If she was still in love with him she would have used the word love. But no, she said loved, which meant that she was no longer in love with him.
There was also the scene in the Girl in Question, when Andrew says to Spike and Angel, 'She loves you both.'
Buffy was in love with Spike the moment their hands clasped. -- Joss Whedon (San Diego Convention)
The great Marsters with a chemistry with Buffy that is just completely different from Angel's, and different than David's, and yet works very, very well. He's more on Buffy's level. He's more... Their vulnerabilities come out, and I don't just mean as characters, but as actors around each other. And that really works, it works on a very different level. Their relationship has clearly been through a lot -- much more, in fact, than her relationship with Angel, in a way. And you feel that history with these two, and they bring it to the set every time they come to work and that's why we still came to work, because they did. -- Joss Whedon ("Chosen" Commentary)
Love him when you say you love him. Love her when you say she doesn't love you. Forget about the crumbling world. For that period of time, it doesn't exist. It's a cinematic trick, but it's a necessary emotional one." -- Joss Whedon ("Chosen" Commentary)
At long last, Angel is returning to the show. How does that affect Buffy's ongoing love-hate relationship with Spike?
I wanted to make definite statements about both relationships but I had to do it in the same episode. It was weird. I had a lot of structural juggling to do to figure out how to make sense of the two most important men in Buffy's life showing up at once. -- Joss Whedon (5-03 Entertainment Weekly)
In the end of "Chosen", when Spike tells Buffy "No, you don't", somebody asked who was right. [Jane Espenson] said she believed that Buffy did love Spike, but that it still hurts her because she doesn't like to think that Spike's self-esteem is so low at that point. Somebody suggested that maybe Spike knew Buffy loved him, but said it to "let her off the hook" so she could leave. And she thought that was fascinating and said she'd have to think about it more - she'd never thought about it from that angle. (2004 Las Vegas Writer Con)
If someone is there for you, is asking nothing of you and has loved you faithfully and unconditionally for all those years, and if that person is the one that you turn to for comfort and support when you are at your most vulnerable, and if they give you that comfort and support unconditionally asking nothing in return, then whether you acknowledge it or not, that is love, so yes, Buffy loved Spike. -- Jane Espenson
Do I believe that she loved him as much as she loved Angel, probably not. Spike and Buffy's relationship was different, more complicated, their was more history, but yes I do believe she loved him. Not as much as Spike loved her though.
And I'm sure since I'm a Spuffy fan as well, one of the Bangel fans are going to call me biased, lol.
Jane Epensen once had the theory said to her that Spike did believe that Buffy loved him, but he only said it to get her out of that cave.
And I do think that she loved him in season six. The one moment that stands out to me is the last scene of Dead Things when she says, 'You always hurt the one you love.' Repeating what Spike says to her.
Also, the first few times they have intimate contact she is the one who intiates it, Spike doesn't. In Once More With Feeling, she follows him into the alley where they first kiss. In Tabula Rasa, he leaves but she goes after him again. In Smashed, she is the one who kisses him first. The second time they have sex, she comes to his crypt and intitates it.
And in season seven there were many instances where it showed that she loved him. Most of that season her sole focus was him. She took care of him, she protected him, she saved him. She ran to him in Lies My Parents Told Me, their were tear tracks on her face when she got to Wood's garage.
Then their was the scene with Cassie, the seer, when she tells Spike, 'She'll tell you, some day she'll tell you.' The only thing that could possibly have meant was 'I love you.'
And Buffy never says I love you to someone unless she actually means it. She never said it to Riley. She doesn't throw those three words around lightly, she even says that herself.
Then there was the scene in First Date where she tells Willow, 'Why does everyone think I'm still in love with Spike?' That implied that she did love him.
The scene at the end of First Date when she tells Spike, 'I'm not ready for you to not be here.'
The one scene in season seven that tells me that she was no longer in love with Angel was when she says, 'I loved him more than anything.' She used the past tense of the word, loved. If she was still in love with him she would have used the word love. But no, she said loved, which meant that she was no longer in love with him.
There was also the scene in the Girl in Question, when Andrew says to Spike and Angel, 'She loves you both.'
Buffy was in love with Spike the moment their hands clasped. -- Joss Whedon (San Diego Convention)
The great Marsters with a chemistry with Buffy that is just completely different from Angel's, and different than David's, and yet works very, very well. He's more on Buffy's level. He's more... Their vulnerabilities come out, and I don't just mean as characters, but as actors around each other. And that really works, it works on a very different level. Their relationship has clearly been through a lot -- much more, in fact, than her relationship with Angel, in a way. And you feel that history with these two, and they bring it to the set every time they come to work and that's why we still came to work, because they did. -- Joss Whedon ("Chosen" Commentary)
Love him when you say you love him. Love her when you say she doesn't love you. Forget about the crumbling world. For that period of time, it doesn't exist. It's a cinematic trick, but it's a necessary emotional one." -- Joss Whedon ("Chosen" Commentary)
At long last, Angel is returning to the show. How does that affect Buffy's ongoing love-hate relationship with Spike?
I wanted to make definite statements about both relationships but I had to do it in the same episode. It was weird. I had a lot of structural juggling to do to figure out how to make sense of the two most important men in Buffy's life showing up at once. -- Joss Whedon (5-03 Entertainment Weekly)
In the end of "Chosen", when Spike tells Buffy "No, you don't", somebody asked who was right. [Jane Espenson] said she believed that Buffy did love Spike, but that it still hurts her because she doesn't like to think that Spike's self-esteem is so low at that point. Somebody suggested that maybe Spike knew Buffy loved him, but said it to "let her off the hook" so she could leave. And she thought that was fascinating and said she'd have to think about it more - she'd never thought about it from that angle. (2004 Las Vegas Writer Con)
If someone is there for you, is asking nothing of you and has loved you faithfully and unconditionally for all those years, and if that person is the one that you turn to for comfort and support when you are at your most vulnerable, and if they give you that comfort and support unconditionally asking nothing in return, then whether you acknowledge it or not, that is love, so yes, Buffy loved Spike. -- Jane Espenson
Do I believe that she loved him as much as she loved Angel, probably not. Spike and Buffy's relationship was different, more complicated, their was more history, but yes I do believe she loved him. Not as much as Spike loved her though.
And I'm sure since I'm a Spuffy fan as well, one of the Bangel fans are going to call me biased, lol.
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