I and many other people have theories about the Spuffy relationship but I have looked further into it re-watching every detail and hitting the fast pasulong and rewind buttons excessively to get all the info I need...
Anyone remember that moment in "Innocence" where Spike and Angelus are talking and Spike asks why Angelus won't just kill Buffy already and he says "To kill her you have to pag-ibig her"? In "Becoming" where Spike and Buffy in a way sumali forces against Angelus to get Dru back he develops some feeling for her at least for a segundo she invited him into her tahanan and in Lover's walk again...
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