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This Is A Relationship Problem That I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!

I have this friend whom I have known for nearly two years and as time pasted we grew closer, as I started to help him get over his past and helping him learn to control his anger and even be his shoulder to cry on.I helped him and showed him pag-ibig in a way no one else could or would. Over time he began seeing me as madami than a friend and fell hard for me, he tested me and told me his feelings which I was stunned sa pamamagitan ng but also happy. I told him I'd pag-ibig to go out with him but I just didn't feel the same way and I can only hope they never did. He was disappointed but went along with it. And over a buwan or two one night I just sinabi "Yes, I'll go out with you." Why? Because he sweet talked me that night (he did it before that too though) and my puso was swept away sa pamamagitan ng him. Ok so I went out with him but every time he touched me I didn't feel that tingle when you touch some you like let alone heat, when talks to me I don't stop and stare in his eyes, my puso does pound at 100 miles an hour. I just don't get ANY of those feelings I did when I had my first and segundo crush. My puso isn't in it with him, yet I tell him I pag-ibig you and I act like the perfect girl friend when we make out and talk, he feels like he is heaven (and I KNOW he does because I see it on his face and I HEAR it in his voice) but me? Nothing. None of that happens to me. I want to pag-ibig him but I just can't for some reason! AND I DON'T KNOW WHY?!?!?!!!! We have been dating for a good eight months now and NOTHING has changed!!! I get the feeling we are not to be no matter how much I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I just don't feel anything....I told him and he sinabi they'd come but they haven't.
 Dhampires posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Rainshadow999 said:
I think you're worrying too much about whether you like him or not. That wasn't supposed to offend you but it is the truth…let me start over.

You're worrying too much :D
Actually you're either worrying too much or thinking too much, stop think if you like him or not and get to know him more…maybe you need madami trust from him?
Be happy, you're 14! (I checked your profile) That means you shouldn't be concerned about your feelings for him unless they're happy-go-lucky!

I hope half of this made sense…I wouldn't know what to do either, if you need madami help you can always send me a message :)
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I'd have to agree. Maybe if you find out madami about him the feelings wll come? I don't know. Good payo though. :)
PucksLady posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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