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What about me? Why does it always seem that nobody cares about how I feel? :'(

Nobody listens to me. And sa pamamagitan ng nobody, I mean my family. They always ignore everything I say or trying to say. And whenever they do listen to what I'm saying, they end up laughing at what I say. It's so annoying and irritatting. It makes me so angry. It makes me want to swear and I don't even swear because I know God won't like that. Every time I just so happen to say something walang tiyak na layunin my mom goes,"AHAHAHA Valerie sinabi this and that!" and she goes telling other folks what stupid thing I say and they end up laughing at me too. I can't stand it when she does that. I'm always telling her in the nicest way and trying to be as calm as I could,"mama, please don't do that." and she says,"ok I won't." and you know what? She doesn't listen. She does it anyway. She did it again today. And I told her the same thing," mama please I told you I do NOT like it when you do that!" but she wasn't listening. She kept telling on me anyways. And now she in there in the living room having a good time watching some movie with my niece and nephews while I'm sitting here all alone in my room just crying and crying my eyes out. Every time I try to tell her how much it bothers me, all she does is fuse at me about it. She doesn't even say sorry about it. She's not the only one who does this. As far as I know, my sister does it, maybe both of my sisters does, granny does it, my cousin use to, but not much anymore. Not because of how it makes me feel. It's because me and her grew up so she must've grown out of it. This has been going on for years. I hated this sense I was a little girl. I'm 20 years old now and they still won't stop. It's like they don't care how it makes me feel. Why does nobody listen to me?! I have feelings too! And family are suppose to understand each others feelings! I pag-ibig my family very much but it just makes me sick! What about me, God? Please answer my prayers! Please make them stop laughing at me bacause of the walang tiyak na layunin things I say! >:'(
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I would've wrote this on the depression club but I doubt that the peaple from that club would pay any attention to this.
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Carolinaproud26 said:
Well, they don't know you like you do. I mean I don't know you. But already I can tell you are special. And I do care about your feelings. I care about everybody. Because I understand people's feelings truly. I've been through something major big! That some people won't understand. It was tough going through it I mean I blamed myself a while for it. Then I thought my family was going to ignore me for it. Because it was an akward situation. I thought after the situation, is people just using me? Do they even care if they hurt me? Abuse me? Harass me? Anything? If you need anything we can talk send me message I be happy to talk to you bout anything
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natalierg said:
Hmm. Well, first off, I am sorry for everything that has been going on because I know how it can feel to be ignored. Even if you sinabi the most ridiculous thing on the Earth that gives no one any right to make fun of you for it. My mom is very similar to yours in the way that she will say she will stop but continues. What I think you should do is have a family gathering, and make sure everyone who is guilty of teasing you comes. Make everyone sit down and tell them your feelings.
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LGYCE said:
I'm very sorry about your mistreatment, but it says in the Bible that the world hates us. Hesus is your truest friend, and is always there for you, whether your family is or not. So I can't think anything drastic, but try asking them to read over the Bible. About how we should pag-ibig one another as ourselves, and how we should treat others how we wish for them to treat us. Try to help them see that you matter just as much as they do in the eyes of Jesus, and that they should not act that way toward you unless that is how they wish to be treated, in which case, grant their wishes to your heart's desire. And if they still don't stop and apologize, maybe you should start trying for a job, so you can earn money, and live somewhere away from your family. Try making mga kaibigan who will treat you as you deserve and back you up against anyone who doesn't. I hope this helped. Btw Swearing is not a sin, taking the name of the Lord in vain is, but words like shit and fuck and damn are nit sinful to say. So if they help you vent your anger, feel free to swear.
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