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I really need help... (Loneliness Advice)

I've been really upset with myself about being shy for so long and it's gotten in the way of so many things. Wanting friends, a girlfriend, my dream job. I can barely even speak to my own parents. I'm tired of living like this and it's been this way ever since I was born. I've tried many things: boost my self esteem, be around socialable people, etc. None of it works. I'm a full-on Christian and I pag-ibig God very much, but why did he make me full of social anxiety and be so shy? It's so bad that I think if I commit suicide, no one would notice I'm gone. I've eveb been considering it to myself for the past few weeks to be honest. Just please help me... I don't want to be shy anymore!
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Diazdiaz95 said:
Please don't commit suicide. I was very shy too and I'm still really awkward in social situations sometimes and I used to feel very lonely too but I not only prayed about it, I got involved in things that interested me. I entered my school's pagganap troupe and just busied myself doing what interested me. Soon enough, I had Nawawala my stage fright and wasn't so shy around people. I started participating madami in church as well. I stopped feeling that loneliness I once had and I started meeting different people and coming out of my shell. It is ok to be a little introverted but you can't let it control your life. The devil wants you to commit suicide so don't give in to that. Find out what you like about yourself and start building up courage to talk to people, it's fine if you feel nervous but just do it because you never know what my come out of it, maybe a friendship even. Find things you like to do like sports and arts that can keep you busy and help you come in contact with other people. Seek other Christians your age. I don't know who you are or even how old you are but I know that you have a purpose and your life is valuable. You have a friend in me, like in toy story:) Message me if you want.
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Remember, theirs a light at the end of every tunnel.
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Diazdiaz95 - this is a very good answer. -777- I agree with this - do not give up, seek mga kaibigan among those who are following the same bible principles as you do. Talk to us on line. Asking this tanong is the first step - you have made at least 2 online mga kaibigan already.
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ITF said:
Things will get better. I am shy and have no mga kaibigan but the animals. I can't talk to people either, about all I can say is yes and no. What ever you do, don't kill yourself! The girl that you will marry one araw is out there and mga kaibigan are not necessary. What about volunteering at a animal rescue? That helped me a lot. Also get a dog. I don't know what I would do without mine or what he would do without me. And a dog would always miss you.
And it might help if you did not watch or read about killing or other evil things.
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bratski2192 said:
Just pray, pray, pray, keep faith & trust in GOD. It's hard, but HE knows, not us. Trust in THE LORD, with ALL your heart, and lean not on thine own understanding; in ALL thy ways ACKNOWLEDGE HIM, AND HE SHALL DIRECT THY PATHS.~Proverbs 3:5-6 Keep that spark of hope no matter what!
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AnimeFan66 said:
First off, I think it is really, really great that you are trying so hard to get out into the world and experience things for the long haul. That is very great of you. The segundo thing however is you shouldn't blame yourself or God for who you are. My mom told me that even though I have Autism, I am considered a gift sa pamamagitan ng God himself. I know it may seem silly, but it is the truth- she told me so. See, if you were to understand what I went through growing up then I'm sure you can relate to not only myself but other countless people who are going through the same difficulties. You're not alone after all- we all suffer from situations like this. But never be afraid okay? If you need someone to talk to you have your family there beside you. You also have people here and even some near you to comfort yourself and your soul. :) Be patient alright? I know it is difficult, but I think if you keep trying and trying than I'm sure you're dream of opening up to the real world will come true. And I also pray to God that you will soon open up and get over your shyness- I'll definitely pray for you tonight. God bless you.
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I do apologize for this answer being too long. :P
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ShadowFan100 said:
First off, God didn't make u with this stuff. A lot of this may be due to how u grew up. And since I'm talking....

I, too, feel like this sometimes. I grew up rather....isolated. Socially deprived and such, so I believe I can relate to this.

2nd, please don't kill yourself. You may miss a chance to speak out. Although, since ur struggling with this, you may need God's help here. Ask Him to help you out, give you what you need to be madami confident.
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MNGRRL said:
You should always look to the Bible, Other than that just try talking to yourself in the mirror than ilipat on with be social from there.
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