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Sister, Mother, Everything Helpp??

Both my mom and my dad dont understand me. They think the way i dress is stupid and my mom refuses to cut and color my hair the way i want to...

I share a room with my 'preppy' sister. She gives me wierd looks everytime i get done changing and tells me i dress like a freak. Actaully both of my sisters do this. They try to get me to tindahan at American Eagle and Aero and I dont like those stores. I've told them that but they won't listen.

Also, in skewl, im teased a lot. i dont care what they think, it's just really annoying. One araw I was wearing a black panglamig (it was cold!) and this kidd in my class walked over to me and sinabi "Hiding your scars?" I just glared at him then he shouted "RAVEN'S A CUTTER!" and everyone started asking me all these tanong and he told me to ipakita them my wrist and i sinabi no then he sinabi "Embarrassed?" and the kampanilya rang.

I don't know what to do about any of these things...i tried talking to the consualr, but that didnt help...what should I do???

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avatar2012 said:

ignore them, i get teased all the time. If you dont give them attention they will leave you alone. As for your family try talking to them about your style and make them see why you like it. Hopefully this helps!

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vampiersgirl said:

there just hating an go with ur on mga kaibigan an go shopping!

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FreaKyRockz said:

Hun, there's only one way to solve this problem and that is ignore them. I know it's hard but you got to. Don't let those judgmental idiots know that their getting to you because that will only satisfy them more. I know exactly what your going thru and I'm here to tell you that ur not the only one. My family barely speaks to me b/c of my sexuality and the way I dress. My friends? Hell I have none the girls at school hate that I'm a lesbo and the guys think I'm a freak. The only person that won't judge me is music and I turn to it everyday. I'm not saying that you should turn to music for help b/c that doesn't work for everybody. All I'm saying is find something that you pag-ibig or pag-ibig to do and focus on that one thing. Pretty soon you will not notice the bullies and your life will be a whole lot easier. I hope that helped, hun and i hope things get better for you. Remember sweetheart your not the only suffering we are all.

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RiderOfTempest said:

First I'm gonna say I understand what you go through, most likely every day. I couls be counted with the emos. My parents don't get me either. They don't like that I dye my hair black, that I wear mostly black, that I like peircings and freaky hair, and,awesome people that they think are weird. They also dont like some of the things I read, and the music I listen to. They dont like it so much actually that I dont tell them anything anymore.I get teased for it too, even from my own friends. I just really like the color black, and I like thos kinds of things.. My payo would be to ignore the haters. I know its nothing you heard before, but its really all you CAN do. Besides tell the counselor, and my opinion is that if he won't help you, or claims that he "can't" he should be fired, because if thats the case, really, whats he there for?
Know there are other people out there that go through the same thing, maybe that'll help. I hope this helps you. I'm sorry. :(

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SamDunkinTurk said:

Ignore them, they only want to see a reaction

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