2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your petsa tahanan and they don’t let you get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight halik isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips or a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that you can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a ilipat if you feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight halik scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies ipakita that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to ilipat in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your petsa steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first halik with your date. This means no tongue or special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his or her world! You can place your hand on the small of their neck if you wish.
If your petsa is enthusiastic, you may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, madami involved kiss. However, only do this if you feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of halik too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting madami than to make them regret halik you in the first place.
If you get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, or if you feel your petsa getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your petsa is waiting for a while to go inside, halik her. She wants you to.
-If you feel your petsa trying to ilipat away or say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" or your petsa has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your petsa probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight halik on someone.
-Add comments such as "Tonight was amazing" or "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and ipakita her that you mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching you go.
-If you want to be extra cute you could even halik her hand or forehead, but be wary of the forehead halik as some girls find it patronizing or granddad-like.
Warning
-If your petsa is facing the other way, do not grab his or her head and turn it to face you for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) halik in front of friends, whether they’re yours or your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around halik anyone, anytime! You may be charged with sexual assault if you ilipat too aggressively.
