I have the same problem. It depends what you mean sa pamamagitan ng girly and romantic. For me, I generally tend to be a pretty apathetic person but when I do want to be romantic I will just cuddle with her. I would balutin my arms around her waist and lay my head on her shoulder and just tell her how much I pag-ibig her and I would halik her and just make her feel loved. I hope this helps.