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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my pag-ibig for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other araw i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother sinabi " No madami mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
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lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with you there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps you going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for you in physical form. MJ's there for you in spiritual form. But your family will be sa pamamagitan ng your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that you truly pag-ibig him, but don't let that blind you from the people that will be there with you at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
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lol thanks! ;)
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WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ fans of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a tagahanga of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a tagahanga of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your pag-ibig for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted tagahanga and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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thanks that really touches my puso
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zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I pag-ibig my obsession:D
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UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my pag-ibig for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that you couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy you one if I knew you :)
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awww i would buy u one too
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zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw or know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to pag-ibig MJ...

But loving him madami than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

You did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe you should talk to a psychiatrist to see why you feel this way.
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is madami than one shrink out there. You just need to find the right one.
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AimieDawn said:
From knowing other fans of Michael, I know they have connections to him sa pamamagitan ng his music and his love. But you do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, you should never pag-ibig anyone madami than your family. Especially someone you never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I pag-ibig Michael, I truly do. You don't have to get every single thing related to him to ipakita how much you pag-ibig him. It's about love, not obsession or material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to ipakita your love.

Please get help and try spending madami time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even madami sick to see how many fans are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so you all approve of loving someone you never even knew madami than your family? Oh whatever.
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Agreed.
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
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And you think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but you really think he would've picked a walang tiyak na layunin tagahanga to be there for?
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^ Bit harsh...
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