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Plz help- i have a bit of a dilemma here lolz ;-)

i know this is gonna sound a bit weird and you're probably wondering about why i'm posting a tanong like this on a site like this buti can't exactly tell this tanong to my mom.
it's very complicated, but here goes:
(sorry if i bore you to death)

i'm in taon 10 and my class is a mixture of taon 10s and 11s. me and my friend are the only two girls in the class. there are lots of boys. i haven't been at the school all that long and there's this boy i really really like. my friend has a boyfriend out of school, and there's another boy in my class who has a HUGE crush on her. but thats not my dilemma-

my dilemma is that when i was talking to her with some other mga kaibigan i asked her whether she fancied anyone else in the school other than her out-of-school boyf. she sinabi yea. i assumed she was gonna say it was this boy who has the crush on her but no--she doesn't like him-- she pointed across the playground at MY crush! she doesn't know 100% that i like him. i think she just thinks i might like him a bit. i haven't told him i like him yet, and neither has she. i don't really want to tell him - i mean-- imagine my shame if he sinabi no!
and if that wasn't bad enough, whenever i talk to him she always comes over and starts talking to him and hugs him.
he doesn't have a girlfriend, but he wants one.

AND,, they are both in taon 11, and he's leaving this summer for college. i have another taon to do.
and if that wasn't bad enough, the worst blow is that HIM AND MY FRIEND ARE GOING TO THE SAME COLLEGE TOGETHER!!!
what the hell am i goin to do?? i know you're probly gonna say something like 'get over yourself' or 'you can always get a new boyf' but it isnt like that he's so amazing and he likes exactly the same things as me. i know for a fact that this time i wont get another one like him.
plz help.
sorry that this story was really weird, but i need help.
teenage life is hard.
thanx lolz ;-P


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i know it seems a bit mad but you can never properly understand how i feel unless it has actually happened to you. it's terrible. teenage life is hard. ;-(
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Hmmmmmm.....Yeh.
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SexyNo8 said:
You know what you need to do? (And this is for all you girls out there, and some boys too I guess). You probablywon't do it, but you've gotta just clear your head, not think about what you do, especially not care about what you do, and just say "Mate, I'm gonna get to it. I like you. A lot. I know it's outa nowhere, but, any chance of a date?" Say it nicely. Don't be shy to graze his arm and be cheeky. Plus KEEP EYE CONTACT! Even if it's embarrassing, you keep the eye contact. If he says No, you simply laugh and say I can't believe you considered that! Don't let him see you cry or look disappointed, cos you look like a loner and no one will go out with you. NO ONE. EVER.
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thanks :-)
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that really helped i think i'll try it!! ;-D
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I agree with you SexyNo8, but the end part was too harsh.
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NeverWalkAway said:
Well, if both of you have facebook maybe you can tell him over that, sometimes it's easier to write that stuff.
And if it's still to hard to face him if he says no, wait until he goes to college and start sa pamamagitan ng telling him you've missed him or something. In the main time, just try to make sure that he and your friend don't pair up. Discreetly, of course :)
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yep, i'm working on that end part already. but the other problem is how am i going to keep her away from him while they're at college together and i'm still at school? its not only that its the principle too - she has a boyfriend and some boys that like her, and she's diggin my guy!!
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Well, there isn't any proof that he likes her, right? sa pamamagitan ng the way, your friend seems pretty unfair :/
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MrsPattinsonXO said:
A similar thing is happening to me. You have to know that will get over him. It sounds like you don't really know this guy all that well, so I'm guessing your crush on him is based mainly on appearance. Remember that boyfriends aren't everything. You could try talking to your friend about it. I'm sure she will understand and as she already has a boyfriend and will back off a bit.
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thanks for the advice. yes, i do know him very wel. he's fab, and it isn't based on apperance. quite the opposite. but i can see where you're coming from.
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ellie_bellie135 said:
A simalar thing happened to me. Except my friend was a total bitch.. but any way.

I really liked this guy and then after a while I told my friend and all of a sudden she started liking him! And she alway's got the guy's over me and she knew it! PLUS SHE IS SO MUCH PRETTIER!

Actually now I say it, It knda has nothing to do with the situation..but as long as were confessing....

I finally told this guy at the very end of the year. And it came as a real shock to him and he didn't really have time to adjust to the idea. It wasn't really embarassing or anything and he respected me madami for it. My only regret is that I left it so long. So my payo is if your gonna tell him do it sooner rather tha later.
He's moving to finland soon. yeh..... No, we still mail and stuff and I like someone else now so.....yeh.

If you guy's are mga kaibigan then there shouldn't be a problem. If you never talk to him- START!
TeeHee. Sorry.

Basicly what MissPattison said.

Soooo....yeh.

Seeya. xoxoxo ♥ Hehhehe. Ok seriously. BYE!
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padme768 said:
oh well, i can easily understand your dilemma...
you really like this boy, but you fear that if you sth, your friend might get mad at you...
what i would do?
a) talk to your friend and tell her how much you like him, that she already has a boyfriend and you would appriciate it if she stepped back, cause you dont easily find a boy that you like
b) go and flirt with that guy, and if
c) you get together, dont brag about him, especially not to your friend...
D)NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, TELL YOUR FRIEND HOW YOU FEEL AND DONT LET A BOY RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP...YOU DONT WANNA BE THE KINDA GIRL WHO DUMBS A FRIEND FOR A BOYFRIEND THAT WILL LAST AT MOST 2 MONTHS! :)
Hope i helped...
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