Not exactly. My problem: I fell for one girl, stopped talking to her, and I'm now dating someone else. Except I still feel something for that first girl. I pag-ibig my girlfriend, don't get me wrong, I pag-ibig her now and forever, but a little piece of my puso is still with that first girl. But, I pag-ibig my girlfriend more, and so I can deal with it. That's all you gotta do - figure out which one you pag-ibig more. Because the segundo person, the one you've just fallen in pag-ibig with, could be your soulmate. Don't miss the opportunity. The person you're dating should understand.