ok, so i recently broke up with my boyfriend. We went out for one week at first because of a rumor about me cheating on him. Then, weeks later we got back together because he found out it was a lie. So we went out for three weeks. during those three week people was lieing about me to break us up be zak (the boyfriend) didn't believe them. Then this dude James (sonicTH111) threatened that if i dont have s*x with him, he would lie to zak say i cheated on him. he would ruin my whole life and eventually i would kill myself. Stupid of me, i didn't listen. two weeks later, he made a fake "conversation" that sinabi that i did have s*x with him. he sent it to some people and it spread everywhere. when it got to zak, he believed it and he broke up with me. he sinabi this time its perminant. it didnt matter how much i told him i didn't do anything, he wouldn't believe me; he would just say "right" or "sure" it broke my puso because i was commited for a crime i didn't do. So today, (if i haven't already say this, we broke up yesturday [2/24/11]) we got back into another fight about the rumor. I was almost there getting him to see the proof that i was innocent, when his Gemerman ex girlfriend gonna barge in and ask for another chance. and i dont understand why he got back together because he broke his puso BAD. she feel in pag-ibig with another guy while they were dating (the first time) then SHE broke up with HIM and then she had s*x with james. so im so confused. PLUS she talked trash about him. she sinabi he was "stupid" and "dumb" and "oh i should have never gone out with him because i didnt realize how stupid he was"
So now im on the ege of killing myself, becuz i have have 7 ex boyfriends and have had like 10 broken hearts. so now i dont know what to do anymore. I loved zak (and still do) with all my everything, and he got taken away from me sa pamamagitan ng a perv and a whore. so now i dont know what to do anymore. so i need some advice!
Alright. Whenever I hear a girl say something like, "I pag-ibig him so much! I can't live without him!" or "I will kill myself since he's out of my life!", it makes me want to smash my head against a brick pader over and over. And if not that, take her head and smash it over and over.
Why? Two reasons;
1) It's simply the biggest crock of bullshit I'll ever out of a teenage girl's mouth.
2) I've been through that too. And to this day, it's an ugly story for me.
To summarize briefly; I met this boy, Andrew (temporary name) at a araw Camp during the summer when I was nine-years-old (Yes, nine). Andrew was a great kid to me, we did a lot of fun things together and (I'm assuming) enjoyed each other's company. Andrew was a pretty funny guy to me, and was almost always fun to be around. :) Eventually, a taon later when we were at summer camp again, I grew a deep crush on him. But I never told him out of fear of how he'd react (Maturity was not really his best aspect, yet he was, like most of us, just a child back then). Well, our friendship lasted until fifth grade. To briefly summarize that mess; Rumor spread about Andrew, Andrew was upset, a friend of his blamed me, Andrew believed him (I'm assuming it was a guy I know of), Andrew had a guidance counselor talk to me & confronted me a few times, I told the truth and sinabi it wasn't me, he didn't believe me. And we stopped being mga kaibigan after the fifth grade. Then there was summer camp. And this is one of the reasons why I don't give my puso to people easily; According to others, he sinabi the following; I'm ugly, I'm weird, I'm really rude, I have staring problems, I got him into detention, he hated me etc. And he and another girlfriend of his made fun of my lazy eye all summer according to a friend of mine. A guy I had a crush on at that very time was saying and doing all of this. Pleasant, I know :)
But, one of the dumbest things I'll ever think of doing was this; Committing suicide. All because of Andrew. -_-
Mainly because, Why end your life over a dumb boy? No, why give up the life you've never even lived yet over a dumb boy? Obviously, if he's walking away from you, whatever he sinabi about being a true friend or boyfriend to you was false. To me, a boyfriend will treat you like that because of a stupid rumor and then go to another girl didn't care that much about you to begin with, if not at all. What is there to sacrifice your life for?
My advice? Don't give up living, because it's not worth it. I learned that about Andrew, myself, and my life later on, and I'm always feeling fortunate at some extent that I did. I have so many pretty cool people (although I don't really see them), and so many opportunities to gain a pretty damn good future for myself. :)
And guess what? You do too. :)
You have to ilipat on if you must. It may feel like or possibly even be the hardest thing you can go through. But eventually, it's the right thing to do.
Alright. Listen. I've recently been heartbroken too, I know how you feel...but it's a boy. A Boy. B-o-y. Boy. Boy.(n) Living being who screws around with girl's hearts because they know we don't want to lose them. Also, a living being which you should not kill yourself over.
7 exes? You.Have.No.Idea. A boy is a stupid reason to be on the urge of suicide. Plus, I really doubt you could go through with it. Wanna talk it out? Message me. Just remember to breathe.
dont kill ur self over a guy. i know u pag-ibig him, but just dont...... think about ur mga kaibigan and family..... how would they fell if u killed ur self. its okay. if u want to talk to me...... im all ears..... dont worry.... time will heal all of ur wounds. again u can talk to me:)
All i have to say is ulat the guy who made u break up (James). If u want, ill also ulat him 2, okay. If he messes with one girl, its like he messes with all of us! You can talk to any girl and tell them whats wrong and they will help you through it.
1) Well your bista sa tagiliran says your 13...so that's a little young to be having sex... 2) 7 ex boyfriends...how long do your relationships normally last?? -_- 3) Don't kill yourself over a guy... 4) Take a break from guys for a while... relax women...lol
psh!please! instead of mourning,you SHOULD be kinda mad.After all,a GOOD bf would NEVER believe sum like that and if you're so extremely upset he should be able to see it.i say 4gt him, you've got enuf on your hands.Worry about school,you know...the place that actually helps you in the future...besides,I'm sure a cool kid,you find some1 soon enuf un
please don't hurt your self it's not worth it trust me you are better and smarter then the people who did that to you don't let theme get to you and just don't hurt your self if you need help heres an spot on this site it can help you maybe some one can help you here link
U serious u gonna kill ur self over a stupid boy? dude, u havent even started ur life yet and u plan 2 end it? NO! Im sorry that you hzve been threw all that crap but still... NO COMMITING SUICIDE!!!!!!
Don't kill yourself, please don't. OKkthis guy you really are in pag-ibig with right? Well this James dude sounds like an Asshole. A serious straight up a-hole. And tell Zak that you ARE telling the truth and demand for James to tell Zak the truth. If you really are in pag-ibig with Zak and you are made to be then things will turn out alright in the end or maybe there is supposed to be another guy your supposed to end up with, who knows? But for now all you have to do is keep living. Don't let it steal your joy. And no matter how bad life gets just remember, in the end, things will be alright.
Omg that is veary badd how could James do that I hope you happy again Zak migt know your telling the trufe soon an you get back togater maybe you havea not fond your sole mate yeta you will don't kill your self he is not wort that
Okay, while I do have some sympathy for you, that's a stupid reason to kill yourself. He's a frickin 13, 14 taon old BOY. You have a ton of life left. He's obviously not worth the trouble. LET HIM GO, you moron. Sorry for calling you a moron. Seriously, you're, what, 13? Ugh, I guess I have anger issues. Seriously, though, I mean what I say. 7 boyfriends at 13? Wow.