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is it bad to be in pag-ibig with someone 7 years younge than you?

i believe it is as kids. my friend, Joy, is crazily in pag-ibig with my mga kaibigan brother. (we're all friends). she doesn't care what anyone says. she kisses him, hugs him, follows him, leans on him, cuddles with him and holds his hand ALL the time, and he doesn't like it much, he's a little okay with the leaning and hugging. none of us are gays, homos, bis*xuals, sluts, whore or lesbians. he's always pranking my "girl" (female) friends, and i don't like it. he's okay with Joy because she joins him. IS it bad?
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How old is she?
r-pattz posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Joy is 14, and Felix is 8.
15blondCurtis posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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.... i would feel uncomfortable to be Felix
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r-pattz said:
If your friend - Joy - is your age, and the brother is 8, I highly doubt she's in pag-ibig with him. She might adore him and think he's cute (in an "awww, look at that little kid eating ice cream!" kind of way), but I seriously doubt she's in pag-ibig with him. He's not, shall we say, mature enough for a 15 taon old girl to fall in pag-ibig with him. No shared interests, really, and it's not like you can have any "deep" conversations with an 8 taon old. What is there to fall in pag-ibig with? She may pag-ibig him, but she likely isn't in pag-ibig with him.
(Or she might just be horny...)

But, with the original question, after a certain age, I don't think there's anything wrong with a 7 taon age difference. You just have to be mature enough to know what you're doing, have enough similarities (both in terms of interests and like, both having serious jobs) and be willing to make it work. You have to care about each other and communicate well, same as in any other relationship.

(By the way, "gay" and "homo" mean the same thing. And mga tomboy fall under the category of gay, anyway. You didn't need to say all three.)
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thanks for all of what you just sinabi
15blondCurtis posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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she's 14. (almost 15)
15blondCurtis posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Then I don't think it's possible she's in pag-ibig with him. What does she say about it?
r-pattz posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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she says "come on Felix, let's play", "Felix is so SWEET" and "he's so darling" (and that's when Julia goes crazy, Brooke and Daren look at her as if she's crazy, and me and Juliette just look at eachother and laugh).
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
How old are Joy and the kid?
If he's very young, yes, it is wrong.
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Joy is 14, and Felix is 8.
15blondCurtis posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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8? ? ? Is she mad?It's wrong.
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Jeffersonian said:
If she's truly in pag-ibig with him at your age, it's creepy. However if you were adults, I'd say differently, my friend's parents have a twenty taon age difference and many interesting couples in the fictional world have quite a big age difference, BUT they're adults so it's totally different there.
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cloudstrifefan said:
It would be ok if like,she was 27 and he was 20,but not okay in the situation you're talking about.Anyway I agree with r-pattz.
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she wants Felix to be her future husband. she sinabi "if i can't marry Felix, i won't marry anyone ever".
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