how do you break up with your fiance without breaking his heart??? urgent help !!!!

well,that depends on his character.you can say that you need a little time and space,or that you are going thru a difficult time of your life,but always saying good words to him like: you are a great man,you deserve better than me,i will never regret hours that i spend with you,i will never forgive you,i don't think i can make you happy...
make sure to NOT blame him for this breakup,it might affect on his feelings!
hope i helped :D

It's me again. If he's been cheating on you for this long and doesn't feel guilty yet, then you probably won't break his heart. I think it's yours that's breaking more. Again, think of what is the best option for you. If you tell him what has been going on and this is your best option then he'll probably do the whole "Give me another chance! It was a mistake! You know I can change!" It's your decision whether or not to believe him since I don't know him. If you know that you're just going to get your puso broken again, then don't give him another chance. There's really no easy way to break something off. If this guy isn't the right one, and he doesn't sound like he is, then you will find another one and your feelings for this guy will fade like his seem to have already faded for you. There is always someone else when something like this happens.

Hello, after pagbaba your tanong from another site, I think you need to worry madami about your heart. From what you have said, he sounds like a jerk. I would just tell him that you don't think that it's going to work between you. I would make a clean break. I know it's going to be hard on you, because of how you feel. As a guy, let me say it sounds like he is just using you. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. I'm not trying to be harsh, just trying to look out for you.