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Does this sounds like I'm the jerk or my friend and what should I do about it?

Ok this happened a long time ago, but I just need to talk about it. Ok I was real good mga kaibigan with someone on here (or I thought I was) well I have this problem if someone makes fun of Dawn from Pokemon I get really mad and sometimes I yell at them (I don't do it much anymore) Will I saw someone say they hate Dawn because she's to nice and kind. I got really ticked off and yelled "Will at least she's not a jerk like Misty!! It's actually a good thing to be nice, not a jerk!!" Then I saw I was yelling at her, I was like "Oh.....that's not good" She got mad and yelled "Do you have to stand up for Dawn everytime someone says one thing about her! Just leave me alone!!" I felt horrible, I made a good friend hate me. She doesn't talk to me anymore and I miss her. One of my mga kaibigan sinabi she was being a bad friend, not me and that she wasn't a true friend if she stopped talking to me after one fight. Do you think she's right? She did friend me back after I sinabi I like Misty again, but once I started hating Misty....agian. She deleted me....again. Do you think I'm the one being the jerk or do you think my friens is? How do I get her to forgive me? I don't know what to do, I've sinabi I was sorry a million times, but she won't talk to me.
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NeroVsLeon said:
Ok let get this straight, you're fighting over a cartoons characters?! Anyway it's not you or her is being a jerk, but I really think you should talk to her like in an intelligent way if you know what I mean.
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u're right
bucherstrongest posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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I know it's very stupid think to fight about, but this was like 4 months nakaraan and I don't get mad about stuff like that anymore. I have mga kaibigan on here who like different characters then me and we talk all the time. But she just won't even talk to me anymore, I don't know what to do. I've sinabi I was sorry, but she just ignores me.
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bucherstrongest said:
what?! she hates u only because u like different characters? that's not friendly, none of u are jerks, well for example, i don't like justin bieber but my friend likes him, but we still r friends, hating a person only because he/she hates ur fav character, that's crazy, dude! go and tell ur friend her mistake and she'll understand something, problem's over
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I've tried talking to her sa pamamagitan ng messages, but she won't even say one word to me.
pumpkinqueen posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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k then just wait, don't say to her any word and then she'll apologise sa pamamagitan ng herself
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tdigirl said:
put that on zee payo spot.......
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its a walang tiyak na layunin spot. meaning anything can go on.
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animegrl52p said:
Niether of you are jerks! You both have different opinions on characters. Try telling your friend what you think about this fight and try apologizing again. You shouldnt constantly try to apologize. Give her time to think about it. If she is a real friend, she'll forgive you.
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I don't constandtly apologize, sometimes I jst try and say hi to her. But she just asks like I didn't say anything.
pumpkinqueen posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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*constantly, *just, *acts. Sorry misspelled some words.
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kitmolly123 said:
No one is a jerk,but she really needs to learn that people have their own opinions.
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LifesGoodx3 said:
I think you both need to talk out your problems so you can see if being mga kaibigan is possible anymore.
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StarWarsFan7 said:
Well, this did happen a long time ago. You and your friend should get over it. Forget about it and make up.
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I have forgot about it and I want to make up, she just won't listen.
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
Neither of you are being jerks, you've both got caught up in a silly argument. Your friendship really should not be based on - cartoon characters?

She's having a go at your for standing up for this Dawn, but she's ignoring you because you don't like Misty.

Tbh, in my opinion, if she can't be mature enough to get over your opinion on some cartoon characters, then she's not worth trying to win back. You've apologized all you can, it's up to her to decide. You shouldn't be the one chasing after her.

It doesn't matter what your interests are. I have mga kaibigan on here who have interests of all sorts. Music tastes from One Direction to Black Veil Brides, and interests from anime to soaps.

You don't have to agree on your friends' opinion. I have a friend on here who doesn't like Cheryl Cole, whereas I'm her biggest fan. It shouldn't come between you. It's you that matters, not which characters/music/books/interests etc you like. :)


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Thanks for the advise. :)
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TeamGalacticFan said:
Well I'd say your the victim here I mean just because you don't like one character dosen't necesarily mean that she should even consider thinking about deleting you because well all I could say is that its not what mga kaibigan do!

Okay I am saying that she is the one being a jerk if I'm honest!

You have all the right in the world to defend a character you like.

And if she was a true friend she would forgive you I'm sorry but I don't know if her senses will come back unless she gets them knocked back into her!

So this is what I mean overall:
Your old friend:The jerk
You:The victim

Well thats what I think anyway!
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posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
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But really none of you are jerks I'm sure of it well at least i know your not anyway!See I have a hard time explaining things in my way which is when I have so much on my mind so some of that may just be jibberish.
TeamGalacticFan posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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But she is proving to be immature sa pamamagitan ng not getting over something so small!I mean at school I have a friend who is like N's biggest tagahanga whilst I really hate N but we're still really good mga kaibigan it hasn't made us fall apart what so ever!And well I like Tabitha whilst she can't stand him and none of the two incidencces have ever involved a fall out between us!
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