walang tiyak na layunin

sagutin ng tanong na ito

walang tiyak na layunin Tanong

May someone help me to feel better? I'm really upset. :(

So my mother and I went to the graveyard a while nakaraan today. We took the dead bulaklak off of my grandfather's grave. He died just several days ago. July 20th. And tears started pouring down my face. I couldn't stop them! And I sinabi some things to God that I shouldn't have said. And I feel SO bad! That made me feel worse!

May someone help me feel better? I feel so terrible right now! :(

Please join: link.
 AllynessaClaire posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
next question »

walang tiyak na layunin Sagot

Shadowmarioking said:
Death is a natural occurrence in life that cannot be prevented. It is the natural cycle for humans to die. One should not sulk over the death of a loved one, but instead try to remember times of joy and happiness that the deceased brought to them and to others. As for the God thing, I can't help you there since I'm atheist, but I'm sure he'll forgive you...I guess.
 select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
*
I know it's natural, but it still hurts.
AllynessaClaire posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
*
Death is going to hurt, that's why it's important to look at all the things the deceased did; all of their achievements, be it small or little, and to be thankful they were a part of your life.
Shadowmarioking posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
Animeanimal said:
Just remember that god knows that you were upset at the time....he will forgive if you ask. And about your grandfather.....everything is going to be alright and I am sorry for your loss, but the Lord wanted him tahanan and he is not suffering any more......you should be happy for him and its okay to feel sad for him too. Instead of dwelling on the past live your life knowing that one araw you will sumali him in you eternal tahanan and that will ilipat you forward. Also you could ask God to let him know how you are feeling and whats been going on in your life.....hope that helped ^^ pag-ibig you and i am always here...
 select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
*
That's sweet! Thank you so much! You seem like a very understanding person.(: ♥
AllynessaClaire posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
*
well, thank you X3
Animeanimal posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
KittyKatTitan said:
Aww, Don't feel sad! Your grandfather's in a better place now, and God will forgive you for whatever you said. Just pray for forgiveness and you will be forgiven. I understand how you feel though, my grandmother just recently died, and I've been pretty upset about it. But, I'm okay now though, because my mga kaibigan and family helped me get through it. I pray that God blesses you and your family through this tough time, and I hope you get to feeling better.
Your friend,
~Kat~
select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
*
You are so sweet.(: ♥
AllynessaClaire posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
Cherry9090 said:
This may help it may not I'm sorry if dosent

My mom died giving birth to me I have been blamed all my life I do not believe in god and I have cursed him alot I do not feel bad because my mom was innocent and he took her my fault or not

But u believe in him so I'll say this Hun don't worry he forgives u Hun ok no worries

And I joined the club
 select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
*
I'm so sorry. It's not your fault. And thanks much for joining.
AllynessaClaire posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
*
Yes it is I never should have been born and most welcome
Cherry9090 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
*
I'm so sorry Cherry. It's not your fault, and nobody has the right to say that it is! You couldn't help or prevent that. I know you don't believe in God, but I'm saying this anyway. I know it may seem like God took her for no reason, but he did have one. We may not know his reason, but he did have one. It was her time to go in his eyes. I know this probably isn't helping you, but I just wanted to let you know, that it's not your fault and you can't be blamed for that! I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I know sorry doesn't help, but I felt I needed to say it. I hope you have a great life and I pray that everything goes well for you! Love, ~Kat~
KittyKatTitan posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
*
Kat is right. I totally agree with her. I couldn't have sinabi it better.
AllynessaClaire posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
danfan1 said:
I don't know if this will help you or not but my grandmother died a few years nakaraan so when i am upset or depressed about something and i am crying all i do is remember the good times and funny things she used to say. Which helps. Sorry for your loss.
 select as best answer
posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas 
*
When I remember those, it makes me sadder. :/
AllynessaClaire posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
*
aww
danfan1 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
next question »
Cookies help us bring you Fanpop. By using Fanpop, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More Got It!