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How do I come out to my Mom?

I'm a 14 taon old female bisexual, and I've already come out to a few of my friends, and they're all really chill with it (I pag-ibig my mga kaibigan <3 ) but there's the issue of my Mom. She's not a homophobe, per-say, like she accepts them, but she particularly dislikes the choice, and she HATES the idea of bisexuals, because apparently they're just being "sexually selfish". I understand where she's coming from, but this is my personal choice to be bisexual, because I can just as happily live my life with a woman as I could with a man. So... how do I tell my mom that her little innocent barbie doll is something she's scared of?
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I so wanted to put "jump out your cliset and shout I am bi" but decided that was a tad harsh.
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Huzzah for bisexuality!
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smartone123 said:
i think you have to tell her its what you want and you REALLY don't need her approval when its what YOU want :3
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Thank you :)
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welcome
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zoki said:
I think u should tell her its what u want and no matter what she says its not going to change who u are. u'll still be u and thats all that matters:) so go tell ur mom that u are bi and theres nothin she can do to u to change u, its what u want not what she wants,so dont be scared to tell her:)Its ur LIFE not hers
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Thank you so very much :)
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urwelcome:)
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I_DONT-KNOW said:
Just tell her. She is your mom after all she will try her best to support you and understand you. It's the meaning of 'mom'after all.

Well that and eternal slave. XD
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haha
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XD. Good luck.
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Vocaloidcode01 said:
Just say it. Bis and gays are people, too.
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trehot said:
"mom im bi, deal with it."
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HAHA amen! :P
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16falloutboy said:
Well there's nothing wrong with being bisexual or being gay or lesbian....not all bisexual people are bad...some are and some good you should tell your mom the truth, tell her there's nothing wrong with being bisexual
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i know theres nothing wrong with it, but its her personal belief that it's wrong :P
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jester616 said:
That's good your Mom isn't a homophobe. That makes things a little easier. I wouldn't phrase your orientation as a choice; it's part of who you are. It's just that once you say it's a "choice" the usual retort is to "choose" to be straight. Good luck.
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Thank you :)
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Jeffersonian said:
If this is really what you want, tell your mom that this is your choice and it would really help if she accepts...parents usually accept their children for who they are and pag-ibig them no matter what.
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YAY
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RobinFan360 said:
"Mom,I'm bi. and I don't give a fuck"
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Will do :P
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blazeandarose said:
I am actually not sure. I wish i could think of something to help you, But at the moment, I cannot think of anything.
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s'all good
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xXSweeneyXx said:
"but this is my personal choice to be bisexual"

Personal choice?!

Sexuality's not supposed to work like that.

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[i]"but this is my personal choice to be bisexual"[/i] Personal choice?! Sexuality's not supposed to work like that.
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everyone has different definitions of sexuality. For me it's a choice, for other's it's a birthright. Deal with it.
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That is the most stupid thing I've ever heard.
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I'm sorry you feel that way.
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adultswimperson said:
You have to tell her it's what YOU want, you don't need anybody's approval of you being bisexual, especially if it's parents, it's your life and you can be the only one to make your own choices.
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Okily dokily :)
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