I'm in a situation...

You want to be a Christian goth, yet you're insulted sa pamamagitan ng your parents for being a goth.
The fuck?
If you WANT to be a goth, you shouldn't be INSULTED or ASHAMED for being called a goth. It's what you want right? Don't be ashamed when your parents call you goth. Say "Thank you! You've noticed~." or something like that. Become what you want, and see if you really do want to be a Christian goth because it's a lifestyle that appeals to you, not because you want to be one.

Well paghahanap for some christian goth artists to use them as examples... Are you a protestant? If you are, doesn't your church have pastors you can get an appointment with and with whom you can talk so that you can find some solution?

um o wow tht is a tough situation :T

All I can say is, be you. If that you is Goth, then I don't see the problem. If you're Christian that's great that you believe in God. People are just judgemental and stupid and always will be wherever you go so all you can do is try to ignore them.

Nobody can't order you how to look like-neither your parents.Christian goths are cool & if you want to be one of them you have to be strong enough to stand up to your parents and everyone else..Just don't give a f*ck about what anyone says.

I think you should talk to the calmly, like an adult. Explain why you think this way and ipakita them examples of other Christian Goths. Try to be really good in the days before you do this, though. Try cleaning and doing chores without being asked to, and be really nice (not that you aren't already).

Argue with them. Tell them how going goth isn't going to change your pag-ibig for God and Jesus, and that it is just a lifestyle that a lot of good people do just because it made them feel unique.

Then, after the talk, do the walk. Whether or not they approved of your style, go goth and ipakita them that you haven't and will never let antything as trivial as a gothic style ruin your relatioship with God. Go to church in goth, pray morning, noon, and night in goth, read the Bible in goth, and eat and sleep in goth. That'll ipakita 'em! ;-)

yeah my parents are overprotective too, i have no fb..well anyway i think you should be true to yourself and tell your parents no matter how crazy they think you are. You have to let them know that, that is who i am and what i love. They have to understand that and be supportive to you, rather than making fun of you. Be true to yourself no matter what ANYONE thinks. Hope this helps!

I think that's really great. I want to be the same thing, so I understand what you mean. Also, if your parents are "ashamed" of you, they obviously do not support you. They should be able to support you in anything. (except for like being a rapist or something...). So just tell the truth to your parents, and remember, God will be with you.