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Cutting?

i'm a cutter. it's almost an addiction. what do i do?
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It IS a form of addiction. I suggest you ask someone you really trust for help. It's not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength to realize something has escalated into a big problem that you can't solve on your own.
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RobinFan360 said:
Depends on the reason.
I don't know how it feels since I don't cut, but maybe you can try and handle it like sucking your thumb? Put something over your wrists(or wherever you cut) that you can't open. Maybe like a bunch of duct tape? Or something that needs a code to unlock which only a family member would know?

And then maybe you could try cutting something else if the reason you cut is to vent your frustration.

Again I don't really know much :/
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Why would she lock something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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^ so she can't cut it
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What does she means sa pamamagitan ng locking something around her wrist?
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I don't know. Something like a big bracelet that can have a little lock
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seeuvocaloid3 said:
message me so we can talk about it because this type of stuff is serious
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okay
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
STOP!
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......it's hard
Castalinia posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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I know, i know noting about this, but it does you no good it just hurts you more, wear rubber wrist bands so you can't.
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loYol said:
Well for one, try stopping. If you can't stop, remove all sharp objects away from yourself. When you feel the need to cut, try to distract yourself. Maybe find some new hobbies.

Secondly, get help.
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Panda-Hero said:
Stop. Wear a dyaket ALL araw (I know it's hot but I wear jackets every araw Bl) so you don't see your arms, and stay around your family so you won't have time or privacy to cut yourself.
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adultswimperson said:
Mental Hospital.

True story.
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Nopenopenope
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NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO
Castalinia posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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@Castalinia, If your parents don't want you to die then you should stop starting now, otherwise they WILL send you to one because they think your trying to commit suicide.
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buffyl0v3r44 said:
I think you should try to talk to someone close to you about it, most people would recommend a psychiatrist, but truthfully I don't think they work, but uy whatever works for you. Cutting yourself doesn't solve any problems so just stop. You obviously have issues if your trying to hurt yourself, so I think you just to relax and take things easy for a while. I checked bista sa tagiliran out and you seem quite depressed, emo, ect. so I think you should take that off your bista sa tagiliran and make it happier, I think that its just reminding you of the pain your going through, so I think if you start telling yourself positive things and being madami positive then it will take you of the dark and bring you madami into the light. I hoped this helped, sorry I'm not the best at giving advice, but if your not comfortable talking to family or mga kaibigan then you are madami than welcome to message me anytime!
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JamesMalsow said:
ummm go some where were their is no knifes or any thing sharp!!!
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 ummm go some where were their is no knifes or any thing sharp!!!
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i use pencil sharpener blades
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oh but still
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TheDirector said:
If you can, you should see a psychologist. And I'm not saying that because there's something wrong with you.

People tend to cut themselves when they've gone through something traumatizing or a terrible tragedy.

Psychologists are here to help people like you. They talk through your problems with you and try their very best to help you stop whatever problem or "addiction" that you are going through.

If you cannot see a psychologist, then try talking to a friend that you know you can rely on.

If you don't have a friend you can rely on, then I'm always available to talk to. I've dealt with cases such as yours, and I'm nonjudgmental in every aspect, but it's all up to you.

Best of luck, sweetie!


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Thanks. The only friend i have lives in Dallas (an oras away from me) and is moving in July because her father is in the war.
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Ale1152 said:
Like I fucking sinabi on the payo spot, you fucking stop. No matter what. It's fucking stupid to do something like that.
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Agreed...
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canddfan29 said:
don't cut yourself! why do you do that?!
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noahnstar1616 said:
Wow. I know you're depressed, but wow...
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x-menobsessed26 said:
Just like I posted in the tanong you asked in the payo section, talk to me if you need to. Sometimes it helps madami when you know someone is listening. I know my friend ComicLover13 also does things like this. Everything you say stays between you and me. We've done this many times for many different people.
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Thanks. i will
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RainbowOtakuX3 said:
You should try to find a healthier way to express your negative feelings.
Like, crying, talking to someone, convey your feelings onto paper.. Like a journal or diary.. Something other than hurting yourself.
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But it helps...a little
Castalinia posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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^ Even so, it's not healthy. Just.. try to relieve yourself of the habbit of cutting, and try something else that could be equally as effective.
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Me_Iz_Here said:
Try to stop. Easier sinabi than done, I know. But just try. If it's too hard, talk to someone. It can just be a friend, family member, anyone you can trust. Even if you're uncomfortable with it, you have to tell someone. Also, try to avoid any triggers. Sorry, I'd pag-ibig to help madami but I'm not a very helpful person. :/
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It's okay. You did help.
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Dogtier said:
Well... I recommend talking to someone you trust. People you know won't exploit you, or blackmail you are anything like that.
Talk to them about it, vent to them. That helps quite a bit, and puts less stress on you, and hopefully controls the urge to cut.

I know, quitting is hard, but it's not worth it in the end. Hurting yourself, harming yourself, killing yourself does absolutely nothing.
There are many things to look pasulong to, many positive things and good people, and ending all those chances at happiness and all that is NOT worth it.
I'm sure your mga kaibigan and family care about you and would be very upset if that happened.
I'm saying this because I know cutting can turn into something more. And that's never good.

I'm am bad at giving advice. This is a subject I take seriously... so I tried to help to the best of my ability.
Sorry if my payo sucks.
Just remember there are people out there that really care.
If worse comes to worse, talk to me. I'm willing to hear you out, always.
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Thanks......:'(
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Mecksey said:
Castalinia, I used to do the same thing. My wrist is covered with scars. And I used to make eraser marks on my lower stomach. Also on my left leg. It seemed impossible for me to stop. I was addicted, too. To be honest, my parents didn't seem to help me. So I talked to my aunt. And then I talked with my counselor. She helped me realize why I did cut. I cut because I felt I was ugly, that people hated me and were out to get me dead. That's how I felt. She helped me realize that I'm beautiful because I'm me. There's no other me. And she made me realize that I don't need people to like me to get through life. I don't need a lot of mga kaibigan to be happy. My life's for me, not anyone else. I've also realized that I can also have someone to help me be happy. For me, that's Ralph Macchio. Just watching his movies, or looking at him, or hearing his voice makes me happy. He's another reason that helped me stop.

I'm sorry this probably didn't help.
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springely said:
An hero.
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KJBiggestFan said:
Stop telling the internet and get HELP.
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ripper124 said:
Idk... when your a grown up you can get a job the cut this. That sounds fun. ^-^
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ilovemichael17 said:
find something to distract you. i have a friend who used to do it but she found something to keep her mind off of it and she stopped almost automatically
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BeastBoyCahill said:
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Please...
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i know. i'm sorry, Beasty.
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