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Help! I need payo on how to tell my non christian bf that I won't have sex until I'm married

Yes, I'm posting this in madami than one spot because I need some help. I don't expect to actually find real payo on this spot though, but it's worth a try... It doesn't matter whether you're christian or not, I want as much payo as I can.

Hi, I'm a 20 years old christian and I've been dating a guy who's not christian for about a month. Whenever we're together we cuddle and halik and I can see that he wants us to go further and have sex (which is the most normal thing for a couple nowadays), but even if I also want to, I always stop it there because I don't want to have sex until I'm married.

How can I tell him in the smoothest possible way? I just don't want him to be mad at me. If he can't stand this and wants to break up, that's okay because this is important for my beliefs but I just don't want him to get angry... We haven't talked about religion at all yet.
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herpinaderpson said:
Just go ahead and tell him right away.
If he actually loves you, he will understand. If he pesters you about having sex, maybe it's the time to find another guy.
I also am non-christian, and if I were a guy, I would respect my gf.
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That's almost exactly what I was going to say.
Hamuko posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
summer2987 said:
just go up too him and say

"bitch you aint getting non of dis till theres a damn ring on my finger . "

and if he starts with that " but babe i pag-ibig you "

slap him , and slap him hard , because if he tries to stop you from doing what you think is right , or what you think is comfortable then he does'nt pag-ibig you at all .


easy as pie .
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being an illiterate asong babae 101
polarwagon15 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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summer2987 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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no need to cuss .
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mish_mish said:
tell him you dont wanna do it before marriage....and if he's only with u for sex...well then good riddance!
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sarabeara said:
First off, I commend you on your resolve and sticking to your beliefs.

Now for the payo part. Other than honesty and trust, communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Just be direct with him and tell him how you're feeling. If he doesn't respect your beliefs and gets angry then he's a douche and you should be glad you found out the type of person he is. You should probably have this talk with him sooner rather than later, because you don't want him to feel as if you were leading him on or anything.
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MineTurtle said:
Just say 'no'! Yeah, I know it's easier sinabi than done, but it will be worth it.
Any guy that truly loves you, will respect that wish and wait.
If he refuses to respect your wish, then the relationship's not worth it.
I know that sounds harsh, but if you keep going, it could hurt the both of you. (Physically, spiritually and emotionally).
Hope that helps!
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CameronLovesNny said:
dude if ur bf only wants sex than just wait until God works his mysterious ways to find a perfect bf for u so yeah pray tht ur bf will understand and tht he will not pressure u into having sex with him thts just wrong tht he keeps asking u n not understanding also i'm a satanist so yeah i am a satanist a good one
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zanhar1 said:
Just tell him how you feel. It's your body and your religion you get to decide when you're ready. If he loves you he will understand and respect your decision.
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boytoy_84 said:
See my answer :
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 See my answer : http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/sex-and-sexuality/answers/show/479251/help-how-tell-non-christian-boyfriend-dont-want-sex-until-im-married
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