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I have a big big big fear of growing up. I just wish I could stay this young forever (I'm 15, 16 in september).
I would like to stop the time, do everything I wanted to and then, if I feel like I have learned enough and that I'm strong enough to facing peoples dead and growing up...then I would like to let the time go again.

I'm just so happy now....but when I realise that it won't be like this forever....I just start crying. I cried a few hours in my kama last night.

Can somebody help me ?
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Darkus-eliox said:
Dude your weak look this life is just temporary e everyone has to come and go and growing up is a part of life no one can stop it not even me only God can stop it if he wishes too if u wanna learn everything and don't wanna be mature then enjoy every segundo of your teenage years cause these wont come again but then when u grow up u will realize that how incredible those years was but dude no one can help u time can't be stopped it all in Gods hand I hope this answer helps u
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I already know how incredible those years are, that's why I don't want them to stop. I know I am proably weak....
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Thanks for the answer anyway.
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Thank you :)
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hetalianstella said:
I feel exactly the way you do~ I wish I could be 8 years old again because I don't feel I am even prepared to be this age (15), or for the future. I'm always either thinking about the past or the future but I never really concentrate on the present.
But that's ok~
It's only human to be afraid of these kind of things.
That's not weakness.

Look back at all the happy moments you have had being young~ Those are over. And it's sad and hard watching life go by.
But think about how great it was that it even happened in the first place.
Those wonderful memories might have never of happened. Something could have happened which set your whole life off course and those memories that you look back and admire could have been non existent. But they did happen~ And they are what made you what you are today. And they will create what you will be in the future.

"Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened"~ Dr. Seuss

No matter what age you are there will always be something to look pasulong to.

If you don't want to grow up, then...stay this age at heart. There's nothing stopping your physical growth. But you can still stay young at puso can't you? This feeling, that you feel as being young. Who says you can't feel that in the future? It's all apart of what your feeling is inside. Not how your body ages.

No matter what age you are it will still be a beautiful day. What really matters is that you go out and embrace it and live that beautiful araw to the fullest instead of staying inside worrying XD
Life isn't forever~ But that's not important. What is important is to create your life into something beautiful and meaningful~ =)
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Thank you :)
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Zeppie said:
I totally understand, I used to be the same :)

I'm 18 and out of High School now and sometimes I wish I could just go back to when I was 8 or 9 years old xD

Life is tougher when you're older, yes. You have madami responsibilities. You pay for your own things, you travel on your own, you decide things for yourself. It's tough of course!

BUT

Growing up is exciting. Instead of safely following your peers like sheep, and being comfortable in the idea of low responsibility and little consequences, you're suddenly shown the real world and you start to see how you can make an impact in this world, grown up, and as an individual.

All I can say is to not fear the future, embrace it. Everyone is in the same boat. Don't take any bit of your youth for granted, but don't be afraid of leaving it behind :)

It's rewarding growing up. It can be scary, but you'll be fine dear :)
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You're right...very right. It's just hard to know that one day, what I'm living now will be over :)
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superDivya said:
I can understand, I am going through the totally saw, thing, it is an awful feeling, tht u r hving fun right now, but one araw u will grow up and will die one day...I cry over it a lot, but I hv a solution, clear ur mind before sleeping, make urself tired so tht u don't hv puwang in ur mind for any other thought other than sleep, I did this for a few days and all my thoughts got of my mind, be busy all the time, these thoughts mostly cum mostly when u hv nothing to do and r sitting alone. Just be busy, then you will be in a habit of being busy, and even if u r not busy, u will not hv these thoughts in ur mind at all
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But when you do that....it's like not wanting to face the truth isn't it ?
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