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I'm kind of in a sticky situation. Advice?

Well, I already thought of what I want to do when I got older, and I plan to ilipat to Texas, and pursue my dream to become a voice actress, and also meet my best friend. I also plan on going to Hapon for a year.

However, my boyfriend has other plans for us. He's planning to stay at his house while his mom (who shares my name, coincidentally enough) and grandmother ilipat out, and work at the local GameStop where he lives.

I pag-ibig his plan and all, but it might get in the way of what I plan to do.

So, what do you guys think I should put first, my goals, or my boyfriend?
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Have you talked to him about it yet? communication is key :)
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8theGreat said:
This is something that no one here can really help you with as it's a rather personal decision.

It all boils down to what you want in life, your own goals for your own lifestyle. How important is your relationship with your boyfriend to you? How important to you are your dreams? How important are those things in relationship to one another- which do you value more? Is your current boyfriend the person you plan on living your life with?
Those are things you have to answer for yourself.
You should also talk to your boyfriend about it as well. He's the best person to consult about this. If the two of you care about one another, you should be able to come to a consensus about it and find a solution.

And it sounds like all of this is a rather long time from now. You have time to think and sort things out. What you want in life might change between now and then, your plans may change or something else could happen to throw off your plans- the future is never certain. So don't sweat it to much for now and just talk to him about it and see how he feels. That's all you really can do for now.
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Thank you for the advice! Also I took my time and read this answer.
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Kragfan1910 said:
Make sure you talk to him.
Don't listen to some of these other guys and just up and dump him, but also know that your future is worth pursuing.

So, my payo is don't ask us, ask him.
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Thank you for the advice!
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CokeBoy97 said:
Put your goals first. I don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, which means I'm free.

It's really what you wanna do tho.
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Thank you for the advice!
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You're welcome...
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TheCountess said:
I pretty much agree with what 8theGreat said. ...and whatever you do, don't let him trick you into having sex and get pregnant. That might trap both of you into a life you don't want, and certainly one a child doesn't deserve.
Also, is the house his to say who will stay? I'm not saying that I'm right, but that might just be something he sinabi to sweet talk you. I suspect that if the grandmother is living there, it's for a good reason, and she and his mom are probably not the ones who'd end up moving.
Whatever you decide, I hope you don't get hurt.

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Thank you.
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You're welcome. :)
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