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pag-ibig or lust?

There's this friend of mine whom I care for very dearly. I would do anything for her, even murder. When I see her, I feel like this paruparo feeling and I cannot take my eyes off of her. Not in the creepy way but in my eyes, she's the most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on and her personality is ten thousand times as beautiful as how she looks on the outside. Her eyes are like gemstones in the night and her smile makes me melt like I have no control. I don't know if I'm going insane or I'm madly in love. I would very much like someone to tell me what pag-ibig is in their eyes.
( Before any of you tanong if she has feelings for me, she does. We have a mutual charm on one another. I just need to know if I'm wrong. Is it pag-ibig or is it lust?)
 kingcesar67 posted 9 days ago
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8theGreat said:
That 100% sounds like infatuation. Which is not pag-ibig but i guess can become it I guess.
No fear though it's just like early stages and doesnt mean its invalid you're just in a state of limerence which will just develop over time if things work out.
And if they dont that's okay too


I dont think pag-ibig is esoteric or flowery or even necessarily profound. It can be those things but I think madami importantly its trusting someone and being so comfortable with them that you can do and say just about anything without fear of judgement and a high level of respect and admiration for the other party as well.
It's also when you've been together so long that you can just chill in your undies but its not sexual at all and you can also tease each other when you fart. Tbh that's true pag-ibig and it takes time to grow and isnt just this hot fiery passion mga tula fest that people like to go on about in my honest opinion.


But uy what do I know I'm just a dumb shit that's been I'm the same relationship for like 200 years with someone I've known for like 409 years so maybe I'm dumb who knows its past 11pm and I sinabi I was gonna sleep so maybe I should do that bye
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posted 9 days ago 
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fiery passion and what u describe aren’t mutually exclusive 😂
sadleech posted 9 days ago
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I agree with Nomy XD
Riku114 posted 9 days ago
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@sadleech "alright bud? dude "fiery passion and what u describe aren't mutually exclusive? No one sinabi they were. The way you came at her did not sound like a non elitist comment. It looked very condescending but w/e.
BlindBandit92 posted 8 days ago
Mike88Al27 said:
I am the Doom Slayer and through my very heightened senses as a demon hunter, the two of you are actually demons disguised as humans through demonic magic.
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 I am the Doom Slayer and through my very heightened senses as a demon hunter, the two of you are actually demons disguised as humans through demonic magic.
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