The main problem that guys face when trying to halik a girl is knowing if they are ready to halik them. Get the timing wrong, and things will turn really awkward. Get it right, and well... you will know. Here's how you can increase your odds. But, if you know they are ready then things will go well
1)Make her comfortable sa pamamagitan ng making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes or you will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to halik that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first halik is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle bangka at a mga kaibigan pond at night, or a private camp fire. Usually early dawn or midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But you don't have to. Just make sure you are sincere in what you are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While you get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and halik you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then ilipat on to longer, madami passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows you time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair or neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck or hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what you were talking about before and keep going if you're not halik her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers you how you were before the kiss, and you want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. You don't want to leave her not wanting more, or she might think you dislike her or even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of halik will it be? If you are young, and the girl is hyper, then you don't want to disappoint her with just a halik on the cheek. halik her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first halik is in a special place - never in the pelikula (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, sa pamamagitan ng a fountain in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first halik a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when you hold her hand.
She'll smile when you say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet you places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make you go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear you say "I pag-ibig you," or "I'm so sorry," or "Can you forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, you just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving you all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, or maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, or how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, you will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then you will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when you see her
Blushing when you talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised or embarrased that you kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave you some experience on dealing with shy girls. You shouldn't feel bad, or ashamed of yourself for halik her. Instead, feel proud that you braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always madami isda in the sea. If she is unusally mean or rude and rants on to all of her mga kaibigan about how you "kissed her" and laughs as you walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". You don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply ilipat on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and you can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!