Is it normal?

I researched abuse one time.

It actually is normal, because judging from what I learned...whether it happened with your consent or not, the body may naturally respond to sexual acts being performed on you. So, you're not psychologically ill at all. It's actually a bit common in abuse cases.

But I don't know if I'm 100% correct, so I'll give you a link to a website that may be able to answer that;

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If this site isn't helpful, just let me know (I suggest you send me a message though) and I'll see if I can find another website that will do a better job of explaining this to you. :)

i was abused to and then raped and i am the same way

not that thats not a valid tanong ( to quote oprah: if the abuser is doing his job the abuse *will* be pleasurable) but i think that is something that should be discussed with a qualified person (i.e. therapist) and not on here since abuse is a pretty complex and private and individual subject. also this is one of those cases where i should think private messages are madami appropriate (if you really wanna hear walang tiyak na layunin users opinions) cause i really wouldnt want to read the first "omg no thats not normal" response.

dont get me wrong im not suggesting you shouldnt ask..its madami that i dont think the fanpoppers at large are really in a position to give payo on such a complex matter.

I was abused sa pamamagitan ng my step-father... so its normal cause i feel the same way!!! I didnt like it when it first started... but its okay cause all i want is sex!

I have no clue..

i was abuse and rape and i don't think you are ill!

i dont have any proof but i think this is totally normal. ive heard that this happens to ppl that have been abused so its nothing 2 worry about. i think that is totally fine

i don't think it's wrong, i was abused for 14 years, so don't worry!

i thing that that is normal uz we all like different likings (doess that make sence?)

Abused how? Sexually or Physically? Either way, it isnt common, but its normal.

Mmh,it's kind of weird. It's like one part of you says that you should be afraid and shout hate it,but one part of you secretly likes it,maybe because some rough stuffs turns you one,you are not a person who dominates...

Well, I was abused physically sa pamamagitan ng my own father and it scared me. I had to call the police on him twice. I know he loves me and didnt mean it. But I have alot of mental illnesses and he was frustrated with me. If you like being abused IDK, maybe you like ROUGH SEX, If you know what I mean. Whips, handcuffs, stuff like that.

I agree with Germany that you should look for help from madami qualified people than the people here on fanpop. At least tell a grown up that you trust like one of your parents, a teacher or just a neighbour that you trust. Just make sure you''ve got help.

Also, remember one thing: it does not matter if you liked it or: it's still abuse. The fact that you enjoyed does not make the other person any less guilty.

i have a long history of sexual abuse as well. years later, im into kink n dif fetishes, and have an awesome paying job in the adult industry.
some ppl think that these things are not connected, i know they are. some ppl go as far away from it as possible, n others find solice in it... it def does not make u psycho.