Is 14 too young to be sneaking out and having sex?

Fourteen is an age that makes me anxious. I do not think that kids should be having sex at that age. However, it is your life and your choices, good or bad. If you are OK with it, then that's the only thing that should matter. Don't look for validation of the choices you've already made online. The fact that you feel you have to ask makes me wonder if you doubted that decision. If you do regret it in anyway, well, it won't be the only thing you regret in life. You're growing, you're learning, you're figuring yourself out. Take it in stride and use it to help you make better decisions in the future.

If you don't regret it, then, I don't really see a problem.

Just remember to be smart and be safe. And that your parents don't want you having sex that young for a very good reason, not just because they're your parents and are against everything you do. I hope you understand the risks of sexual activity, even monogamously, at that young of an age.

Girl, who know dang well how I feel about this. Aslong as there's protection being used, screw all you want!


Go Buttcheek it's your birthday!

If you thought you were ready for it, and you were careful, then I don't see any problem with it. I just hope that you don't regret it, though.

Just be careful! For everyone's sake that's in your life.

Hmm...I dont know how to answer your question. 14 you are still developing and sneaking out and having sex could lead to serious things, problems or regrets. You have your whole life ahead of you to have sex with a guy. I am 21 and I have never even kissed a boy. IDK, my virginity is something I care about. I want to give it to my long-term boyfriend/fiance or Husband when Im older. Not just have a fling with it. But its up to you. Just remember though that if you wind up pregnant that its forever- even abortions hurt your chances later in life( if you choose that route I mean). I have been around kids and seen them go from mga sanggol to 14 yr. olds. My grandma has been doing daycare since I was seven. And I have seen so many babies. They are adorable at first but they are beyond a handful when they turn one and two. And it gets worse as they get older, the older they are the madami they need. Im 21 and still need help from my parents. So this is just my opinion and payo take it or leave it. Its your decision.

yeah it is i just watched a movie about that and the girl had a disease *SAD* but she did with OTHER GUYS. *DUMASS GIRL* :)

Raise it up one madami year, thats the right age to do it.

Yes

yes it to young you should wait until you are 21!

I think 14 is a young age

well, i think it really depends on if you feel you're ready to do that, then yes.

but i am damn traditional and i think it's still a very young age. well. i'm still younger then that. *looks other way*

Too young?! Too old! You don't have to sneek out...

No! I had it before once. It was cool... but um... its not right, I know. I am 'married' to my boyfriend and we had it... omg it was amazing.

Yes it is...

if ou like it do it then

Well...I know that in Germany you are allowed to have sex at the age of 14, so there something like this is nearly normal, but I think it´s only ok when YOU haven´t any doubt that it´s good for you and only if YOU think that it isn´t a problem to have sex when you are 14.
That´s my opinion.

Well, I'm 14 and I'm totally NOT ready. If you are, I guess it might be ok, but my conscience would say otherwise.

I'm only 13 and ya I have sneaked out but sometime I regret it and sometimes I don't I mean I care about my mom and dad and I know if something happened to me they would die but at the same time I mean I'm not doing anything wrong but I guess its up to you u really need to think about it.....and it kinda dependes where you leave to if you leave in a small town like me well its no big deal but if you leave in an a city it way worse

If you're being safe, it's legal for you and your partner, and have seriously thought about the repercussions - should any happen - and how you'd deal with them, then, no. Everyone comes into this differently and becomes ready when they feel ready.

Although, I do have to agree with Cinders: the fact that you're asking this online, two years after the fact, makes me wonder if you had thought through what you were doing.

honestly, it depends on how emotionally prepared you are and the situation taking place. alot of people just have sex because they really like the guy that wants it and they think that will make him " love" you or just stay around. As a virgin the only desire anyone should have for sex is just curiosity because you dont know what yout getting into quite yet. i think fourteen is young to have sex, but some girls can handle it. if sex has no value to you ( emotionally) and you really dont think its a big deal, and you can stay completley calm and collected while thinking about it in your head then go for it, i mean why not if you can handle it? also if you dont give a shit about what people will think about you because you will get talked about, in a bad way. trust me.

i Nawawala my virginity a buwan after my fourteenth birthday with a guy who i was somewhat convinced liked me.. we had sex twice and then he dated me ex-bestfriend a week after, while ignoring me the entire time. honestly it was a little weird for me at first, but now there is no big deal what-so-ever and im sneaking out a few times a week to fuck my bestfriend;p. oh, and im still fourteen also. but as long as you can handle it, and dont give a shit what anyone else thinks you might as well go for it and dont regret it either because that will solve nothing. its all your opinion, and your decision that matters:).