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TV Couples The girl cries over the guy. A lot. Is that a bad thing?

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It can be....
   56%
No. pag-ibig isn't always easy
   38%
Yes. pag-ibig should make you happy not miserable
   6%
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livelydebate picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
So some people enjoy pointing out how many times the girl has cried when she's in a relationship they don't ship, saying it's unhealthy or whatever.

I personally don't think that's the case at all. When they cry it's because they're emotional and they're emotional because they're in love.

There's a difference between crying BECAUSE of a guy and crying OVER a guy.
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TearsofPearls32 picked It can be....:
I think it depends on the couple.
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xochuckandblair picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
Completely agree Lucy.
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kellyerin87 picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
Completely agree. Crying OVER a guy can be completely different than crying BECAUSE of a guy.

A lot of the time, crying simply just shows passion. If you don't cry in your relationships... then your feelings for that person probably aren't very strong, if they aren't bringing out any emotion from you. Crying is perfectly healthy. However ofcourse, it always depends on the REASON for the crying. If you're crying over and over again, because something is wrong in the relationship, then obviously that can be a bad thing.
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gracery picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
There's a difference between crying BECAUSE of a guy and crying OVER a guy.

This. If she's crying over him a lot, she's really passionate about and emotionally invested in the relationship. Her heart is really in it. But if she's crying because of him, it's a whole 'nother story.
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backtoblack picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
Ditto,Lucy.
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3_ThePretender picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
I agree with you.
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Team_Brooke picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
Completely agree. Crying OVER a guy can be completely different than crying BECAUSE of a guy.
Word.
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KathyHalliwell picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
Pretty much what everyone said above me.
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xoheartinohioxo picked It can be....:
What others have said - it depends on WHY she is crying.

Like when Peyton cries over Jake leaving in S2, that's a "good" cry. She's crying because she loves him so damn much and it breaks her heart to watch him walk away =/

But then there are moments like 5x17, Peyton cries/is upset because Lucas said he hated her & she ruined his life. That would be a "bad" cry.
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Nibylandija picked It can be....:
What others have said - it depends on WHY she is crying.

Like when Peyton cries over Jake leaving in S2, that's a "good" cry. She's crying because she loves him so damn much and it breaks her heart to watch him walk away =/

But then there are moments like 5x17, Peyton cries/is upset because Lucas said he hated her & she ruined his life. That would be a "bad" cry.


I WAS ABOUT TO SAY THIS, HOLLY!
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jemgrl323 picked It can be....:
kellyerin87 pretty much took the words right out of my mouth.

But to add:
But if the girl is crying more than she is smiling... that's a huge problem. Because being emotional should mean feeling a range of emotions... an emotional person may have extreme lows (especially when in love) but she should be experiencing extreme highs as well.

And I also think a television character crying a lot could be bad though... because it's tv (and not real life) so no one wants to watch someone CONSTANTLY crying.
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sk91 picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
First thing which comes to my mind here is:
Logan: Come on, you know I'm not talking about Hannah. I thought our story was epic, you know, you and me.
Veronica: Epic how?
Logan: Spanning years and continents. Lives ruined, bloodshed. EPIC. But summer's almost here, and we won't see each other at all. And then you leave town... and then it's over.
Veronica: Logan...
Logan: I'm sorry about last summer. You know, if I could do it over...
Veronica: Come on. Ruined lives? Bloodshed? You really think a relationship should be that hard?
Logan: No one writes songs about the ones that come easy.
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gossipgirl95 picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
I Agree With ^TearsofPearls32^.
I Want Blair from Gossip Girl Crying Over Chuck but Not Over Nate.
Or Amy from The Secret Life Crying Over Ricky but Not Over Ben.
Or Quinn from Glee Crying Over Puck but Not Over Finn.
If They Cry Over Him It Means They Care!
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livelydebate picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
If They Cry Over Him It Means They Care!

That's what I gather. There's a reason Blair cries over Chuck and not Nate. There's a reason Kate cries over Jack and not Sawyer. Just sayin.
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xoheartinohioxo picked It can be....:
^^^ But Blair HAS cried over Nate & Kate HAS cried over Sawyer.

???
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livelydebate picked No. pag-ibig isn't always easy:
But Blair HAS cried over Nate & Kate HAS cried over Sawyer

Well yeah, just not near as much. I made this pick with those two couples in mind since that's a thing their critics point to.
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xoheartinohioxo picked It can be....:
Oh okay =] Just making sure I wasn't losing it. lol.
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livexthexlife92 picked It can be....:
i think it depends on the couple, but generally i agree with your comment about the whole crying OVER a guy and crying BECAUSE of him.
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clanbillr picked It can be....:
Every break up is a loss so it's OK to cry when ever you want too!!!
Guys cry too!!!
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MariLena16 picked It can be....:
It depends.
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