Eclipse is my least favourite, which means I'm only mildly obsessed with it.
I agree that Jacob needs to imprint and find his own girl (or if he chooses, his own guy). I still like Jacob, he just has big problems.
I think Bella does pag-ibig Edward more. (A lot more.) Although since her pag-ibig of Edward is possibly the truest of true loves, that doesn't mean she doesn't pag-ibig Jacob with enough power to light up all of Washington. It just means it isn't enough to overpower her pag-ibig of Edward, which (since I already used the electricity metaphor) could light up all of Earth and then some.