What is love?
Oi there mates… Let me tell you few things here. I actually asked myself that tanong long ago. Why? Well, maybe because I had no mga kaibigan or other people who would accept me when I was a kid. Now I know all that matters is to accept yourself and I got a lot of friends, but to find that explanation all alone pulled me through a lot of pain. Aye... You couldn't believe it. Most of the people can't endure the lonlines, I've seen it... And finally when I found the explanation, I asked myself: ’’What the hell is pag-ibig then?’’. Lately on I started to watch other people to see how they do things. So after some observation I figured out what pag-ibig is…. I don’t actually have experience with pag-ibig among girl (or guy, I'm not gay -.-), but I talked a lot with people, so I came to conclusions.
First let me tell you what pag-ibig isn’t. When person cannot take eyes from you, when somebody keeps touching you, that is not love, it’s only lust. Being happy with some person that can protect you, give you all the puwang you need is definitely not love. It’s only happiness and joy, also connected with lust. Being alone with bleeding and hurt heart… needing somebody to be near you and then that somebody appears. That somebody stands for you and always backs you up. Is that love? Oh, you wish it is… No, pag-ibig is far from that. Also telling somebody that you think about that person all the time… that you would give everything for that person… Do you think that is love? Well, well… first of all it’s a lie. You can’t think about somebody all the day, cause we all simply have things that only we like to do and what makes us special. Secondly, if you sacrifice yourself like giving up from things you like for your mga kaibigan or special person you love, it’s also not pag-ibig for someone, it’s generosity. There is one madami effective example of what pag-ibig is not. When you see somebody and you’re running out of breath, your puso beats stronger and faster, your legs are shaking and you feel great joy…. Is that really pag-ibig you feel about somebody? Of course not. It’s infatuation, falling in pag-ibig on blind way. Then how do we figure out what is love? Does it even exist? And can we pitiful and corrupted people ever reach it and how? Those tanong filled my mind. It took me 2 years to figure out the sagot on my own, since I am not experienced with all kinds of love.
And that’s how I figured out the answers. pag-ibig is… when somebody wants to accept you. With all the yours defects and all your needs. pag-ibig is when somebody brings you pain, tears and sorrow, but also who brings you much greater smile, joy and happiness. Cause we aren’t perfect or same beings and it’s not normal that somebody supports you at absolutely everything and brings you no pain. pag-ibig is when somebody is ready to die for you. But let us not abuse that fact. pag-ibig is also when somebody would never let his honor go down for your sake, because you pag-ibig that person the way it is. ‘’True love’’ definitely… oh, look at me, I’m using that phrase ‘’True love’’. That phrase have no other meaning than usual word ‘’Love’’. It’s sad that that word ‘’True love’’ even exist, when we people forgot what’s the meaning of love. Cause some people says: ‘’Love sucks…. pag-ibig only hurts your feelings…. It’s better having good fun than broken love…’’ , mates… all of that is not even near love. Anyway, let’s return to my answering to you mates. pag-ibig definitely exist. We people can reach it sa pamamagitan ng believing in it. Yeah… just believing in it. We don’t need to try out thousands of pretty boys or girls. Be sure, the chance won’t slip away and our happiness won’t slip away. We people don’t need to go reaching for happiness or love. Happiness is the way of life, the way we live our lives, we can be happy every araw if we choose so. pag-ibig is almost like happiness. pag-ibig happens to us, when we find somebody special we would simply know that. It’s very difficult to believe, it’s almost being like a foolish child. But anyway, it’s been proven few times that those who believe to the very end will reach all they were fighting for. Just have faith mates…
You can moan on my English grammar if I did something badly and if you feel like doing it. Peace... ^^
Oi there mates… Let me tell you few things here. I actually asked myself that tanong long ago. Why? Well, maybe because I had no mga kaibigan or other people who would accept me when I was a kid. Now I know all that matters is to accept yourself and I got a lot of friends, but to find that explanation all alone pulled me through a lot of pain. Aye... You couldn't believe it. Most of the people can't endure the lonlines, I've seen it... And finally when I found the explanation, I asked myself: ’’What the hell is pag-ibig then?’’. Lately on I started to watch other people to see how they do things. So after some observation I figured out what pag-ibig is…. I don’t actually have experience with pag-ibig among girl (or guy, I'm not gay -.-), but I talked a lot with people, so I came to conclusions.
First let me tell you what pag-ibig isn’t. When person cannot take eyes from you, when somebody keeps touching you, that is not love, it’s only lust. Being happy with some person that can protect you, give you all the puwang you need is definitely not love. It’s only happiness and joy, also connected with lust. Being alone with bleeding and hurt heart… needing somebody to be near you and then that somebody appears. That somebody stands for you and always backs you up. Is that love? Oh, you wish it is… No, pag-ibig is far from that. Also telling somebody that you think about that person all the time… that you would give everything for that person… Do you think that is love? Well, well… first of all it’s a lie. You can’t think about somebody all the day, cause we all simply have things that only we like to do and what makes us special. Secondly, if you sacrifice yourself like giving up from things you like for your mga kaibigan or special person you love, it’s also not pag-ibig for someone, it’s generosity. There is one madami effective example of what pag-ibig is not. When you see somebody and you’re running out of breath, your puso beats stronger and faster, your legs are shaking and you feel great joy…. Is that really pag-ibig you feel about somebody? Of course not. It’s infatuation, falling in pag-ibig on blind way. Then how do we figure out what is love? Does it even exist? And can we pitiful and corrupted people ever reach it and how? Those tanong filled my mind. It took me 2 years to figure out the sagot on my own, since I am not experienced with all kinds of love.
And that’s how I figured out the answers. pag-ibig is… when somebody wants to accept you. With all the yours defects and all your needs. pag-ibig is when somebody brings you pain, tears and sorrow, but also who brings you much greater smile, joy and happiness. Cause we aren’t perfect or same beings and it’s not normal that somebody supports you at absolutely everything and brings you no pain. pag-ibig is when somebody is ready to die for you. But let us not abuse that fact. pag-ibig is also when somebody would never let his honor go down for your sake, because you pag-ibig that person the way it is. ‘’True love’’ definitely… oh, look at me, I’m using that phrase ‘’True love’’. That phrase have no other meaning than usual word ‘’Love’’. It’s sad that that word ‘’True love’’ even exist, when we people forgot what’s the meaning of love. Cause some people says: ‘’Love sucks…. pag-ibig only hurts your feelings…. It’s better having good fun than broken love…’’ , mates… all of that is not even near love. Anyway, let’s return to my answering to you mates. pag-ibig definitely exist. We people can reach it sa pamamagitan ng believing in it. Yeah… just believing in it. We don’t need to try out thousands of pretty boys or girls. Be sure, the chance won’t slip away and our happiness won’t slip away. We people don’t need to go reaching for happiness or love. Happiness is the way of life, the way we live our lives, we can be happy every araw if we choose so. pag-ibig is almost like happiness. pag-ibig happens to us, when we find somebody special we would simply know that. It’s very difficult to believe, it’s almost being like a foolish child. But anyway, it’s been proven few times that those who believe to the very end will reach all they were fighting for. Just have faith mates…
You can moan on my English grammar if I did something badly and if you feel like doing it. Peace... ^^
as if you gave me a choice
everything about you i loved
all other feelings aside i shoved
on your every word i hung
and even among
a crowd, only you i see
nowhere else i would rather be
these feelings for you, that are kept inside
i can no longer hide
everything about you i admire
you are all i desire
so kind, so sweet, so passionate
everytime our eyes met
my puso would race
while looking at your smiling face
full of buety, life, and joy
with my emotions you play like a toy
like a wild beast, my emotions cannot be tame
and i don't even know your name
Life's like a rollercoaster,
Don't waste the ride.
Live it up all the way,
because today's your last day
What would you do?
Would you cry a little, scream a little, think it's all pretend.
Or go into silence until the very end...
Would you pag-ibig the ones you hate the most or be the person you hide?
Would you pretend that you're ok but really scream inside?
Would you try and keep the sun from setting as your last araw ends?
Knowing you'll never see it rise...
Tomorrow I'll be somewhere else you say as you close your eyes.