*I believe in respecting the privacy of others, so my friend's name will just be Angelica*
So I've known this person, Angelica for quite some time. When I first added her on my fanlist, she sent me a message saying hi and we just became mga kaibigan that way. She seemed really nice and sweet, I liked her :)
But then, things started to get a little out-of-hand. Angelica somehow got the idea that every time I'm on fanpop I should talk to her. Whenever I was on, she'd send me a message saying how hurt she was because I didn't send her a message. Or if I didn't reply her messages within five minutes, she freaked out and send me another one saying how hurt she was that I didn't reply or something very similar to that.
It got to the point where Angelica and I had a fight and she deleted me from her fanlist. I had to have someone sent her an apology from me so she could add me back and we could repatch things.
After that, things were alright. Angelica didn't freak out so much over me not replying her messages, but sometimes she still got upset when I didn't talk with her a lot. She'd say that she just missed me and wanted to talk with me.
But then things got worse. Angelica apparently had a lot of people in her past who had done hurtful things to her, like ignoring her on myspace or deleting her from their fanlists or calling her names such as "a**hole". (I talked with some of these people, and they'd actually say that she did the same thing she did with me to them, and that when they tried to apologize they found out she blocked them.)
Angelica would constantly talk about how this one person who invited her here was always mean to her and invited her on fanpop just so she could have problems with her mga kaibigan like me. I'd try to say that this wasn't true, but I don't think she listens to me.
Right now, we've been fighting a lot because she's so possessive of me and always so depressed!
Whenever I try to say sorry and repair things, she'd say things like "You probably dont' want me in your life" or "You probably never want to speak with me" and other crap like that.
But honestly, sometimes I do feel that way and never want to talk to her.
Can someone please give me some advice? She's driving me nuts!!!!
So I've known this person, Angelica for quite some time. When I first added her on my fanlist, she sent me a message saying hi and we just became mga kaibigan that way. She seemed really nice and sweet, I liked her :)
But then, things started to get a little out-of-hand. Angelica somehow got the idea that every time I'm on fanpop I should talk to her. Whenever I was on, she'd send me a message saying how hurt she was because I didn't send her a message. Or if I didn't reply her messages within five minutes, she freaked out and send me another one saying how hurt she was that I didn't reply or something very similar to that.
It got to the point where Angelica and I had a fight and she deleted me from her fanlist. I had to have someone sent her an apology from me so she could add me back and we could repatch things.
After that, things were alright. Angelica didn't freak out so much over me not replying her messages, but sometimes she still got upset when I didn't talk with her a lot. She'd say that she just missed me and wanted to talk with me.
But then things got worse. Angelica apparently had a lot of people in her past who had done hurtful things to her, like ignoring her on myspace or deleting her from their fanlists or calling her names such as "a**hole". (I talked with some of these people, and they'd actually say that she did the same thing she did with me to them, and that when they tried to apologize they found out she blocked them.)
Angelica would constantly talk about how this one person who invited her here was always mean to her and invited her on fanpop just so she could have problems with her mga kaibigan like me. I'd try to say that this wasn't true, but I don't think she listens to me.
Right now, we've been fighting a lot because she's so possessive of me and always so depressed!
Whenever I try to say sorry and repair things, she'd say things like "You probably dont' want me in your life" or "You probably never want to speak with me" and other crap like that.
But honestly, sometimes I do feel that way and never want to talk to her.
Can someone please give me some advice? She's driving me nuts!!!!
Ok, here it is,
One araw I'm at school, just minding my own biz, and talking to my friends. Then one of my ex boyfriends mga kaibigan comes up. Hes all," Hey, heres a note from Robert." So I read it. It read,
If I could have 3 wishes, it would be to have the girl I pag-ibig back who burnd me, and to have enough money to buy her whatever she wants...
Obvisosly, hes talking about me. We dated last year, now... hes still on my shoulders, like an annoying loro that won't go away. My friend told him that I wanted to go back out with him... and I don't!
Then...*sighs* then, theres my online boyfriend... hes sweet, charming, and we do things... I've known Robert longer, but my pag-ibig for him..(online bf) is so strong... we talked with our voices today and I almost screamed...
But the probolm is, is that I'm tring to break up with Robert, but every time I'm about to say it, he gives me a gift or when I say it, he laughs and thinks I'm joking.. What do I do?!?!
One araw I'm at school, just minding my own biz, and talking to my friends. Then one of my ex boyfriends mga kaibigan comes up. Hes all," Hey, heres a note from Robert." So I read it. It read,
If I could have 3 wishes, it would be to have the girl I pag-ibig back who burnd me, and to have enough money to buy her whatever she wants...
Obvisosly, hes talking about me. We dated last year, now... hes still on my shoulders, like an annoying loro that won't go away. My friend told him that I wanted to go back out with him... and I don't!
Then...*sighs* then, theres my online boyfriend... hes sweet, charming, and we do things... I've known Robert longer, but my pag-ibig for him..(online bf) is so strong... we talked with our voices today and I almost screamed...
But the probolm is, is that I'm tring to break up with Robert, but every time I'm about to say it, he gives me a gift or when I say it, he laughs and thinks I'm joking.. What do I do?!?!
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the new Dear Annie
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