Why ppl cannot understand that how much we pag-ibig them..?

Why ppl can't understand how much we pag-ibig them .?
No matter how much we care , pag-ibig .. They just hurt us?
Okay , hurt me .. , do i have problem in me ?
Talking about , friends/family....
Or always bless sa pamamagitan ng hurt and tears ? Can anyone always be in wrong company ??