I feel so sad and upset sa pamamagitan ng the idea of Horr-al-Iyn in Paradise. :'(

Men will have 2 wives from the hoor in jannat.This seems so unfair. We do everything for our husbands in this world , we support them , care for them , pag-ibig them and sacrifice for them. What have those hoors done that they will be getting them in paradise? sa pamamagitan ng the thought of sharing my husband , I dont want to get married anymore. People say jeaousy would be removed in jannah. Why cant lust be removed if jealiousy can? this is so unfair.
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In the world , our husbands promise to be ours forever and pag-ibig ous only and in herefater they will be sleeping and loving some walang tiyak na layunin girls.....this is simply ridiculous.....marriage in world makes no sense then.
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so he didnt pag-ibig and he just lieing coz if he really pag-ibig u u will be his hooe and no one else
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this drives me completely insane
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sweet_yuri said:
1st sorry but it is wrong to tell to Allah it is unfair and upset from thing allah tell us so ask Forgiveness of God
2nd think u not got this idea in jannah if yr husband really pag-ibig u and want u he asks allah to be his hoor al eyn ok if he didnt i think he will be happy to be with hoor el eyn and in jannah u must be happy
i hope i helped u
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hmmm but i have objection with this hoor idea...i prefer not to get married.whats the use of being sicner ein this world when in hereafter your hsuband will be with multiple women?
mahnoor posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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what kind of justice is this? we women will lose our pag-ibig when we go to the paradise......it wasn't tht importnt to create hoors.
mahnoor posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Well it is haram to complain to Allah and call his rewards and decisions unfair, astaghfirullah. You cannot have an objection to Allah's decision. Plus, women will get a better reward than that.
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rory2011 said:
what ?????
why you're upset ? , if you get to paradise you will be the horr-al-iyn reyna ( that's much better than to have a husband )
and like the answer above me , you will be the most beautiful one between the horr-al- iyn and men likes beautiful girls , so there's nothing to worry about

may Allah bless us with paradise
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hmm i dont want to be a reyna i just want to be the only one :'( ...........yeah may allah give us paradise ameen
mahnoor posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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if I will be the reyna taht means i can also order them.so i cana lso say them to stay away from my hubby and clean my house .LOL :p
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Black0Stranger0 said:
You are right there is no jealousy in Jannah.
But let me ask you if you were going to be rewarded with something in Jannah would you want it taken away because someone thinks it unfair?
Men deserve what they get and do not worry, yes those Hoor ul ayn will be beautiful but the wife of the man will be madami beautiful then all of them combined and he will pag-ibig her the most.
So do not be sad for Allah rewards everyone fairly and you will be madami beautiful then them combine for Allah has tested you and they aren't tested.

BTW they get 72 not 2
According to Ibn Kathir (died 1373 CE) in his Holy Quranic commentary (Tafsir) of the mentioned Surah Al-Rahman (55), verse 72: “The Prophet Muhammad was heard saying: ‘The smallest reward for the people of paradise is an abode where there are 80,000 servants and 72 wives (houris), over which stands a dome decorated with pearls, aquamarine, and ruby, as wide as the distance from Al-Jabiyyah [a Damascus suburb] to Sana’a [Yemen]’.” [Tafsir Ibn Kathir]
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