PLEASE HELP ME

there are times when i doubt god exists. i sin madami and madami often now. i want to believe in god and i want to have undying devotion to him, but i am having such problems. i fear he doesn't exist. i fear of going to hell. i try so hard to believe, to change my thoughts, to pray. i've been going to church, but for whatever reason, it doesn't help. please help me. i am such a mess. i don't want to be a non-believer. i pray but it feels as if no one hears me.i feel so hopeless. i want to be a good christian, i want to follow in gods footsteps, but i can't. i'm frustrated beyond sense. i don't want to be like the ancient greeks who spent their lives worshipping all in all nothing. please, if there is anyone out there, please help me. i need to be saved. i want to be saved. please. i need payo and hope and assurance. please. save me from myself. i am desperate.
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MadamOcta13 said:
I had just recently had the same problem. I used to be extremely close to God and Jesus, and then all of a sudden, it just stopped. I couldn't explain why I felt that way, I just did. When life suddenly threw all these stressful problems at me, I tried to escape into books. I thought that those books were going to save me, but then I woke up and realized that they were doing nothing for me. I felt just as you did; that I wanted to pag-ibig God, but I just didn't feel that close to Him. Just remember that God is always with us no matter what. Even if we can't see or feel it, He is. It was like the time Hesus was on the tumawid and called out "My God, why have you forsaken me?" Everyone feels alone. Just take some time to talk to God about something; anything. I find that if you sit sa pamamagitan ng yourself in a quiet place and talk to Him about your problems, an answer will come. If you just keep that in mind, and continue to pray, your relationship will grow. I saw my problem as a test from God; He wanted to see how faithful I was. Even when I distanced myself from Him, He tested to see how much I loved Him sa pamamagitan ng seeing how much time and effort I put into trying to rebuild my relationship with Him. God is probably testing your loyalty and pag-ibig for Him; remember, just WANTING to pag-ibig and be closer to Him is enough to start to rebuild your relationship with God.
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my_renesmee05 said:
The devil makes u have those feelings, he makes u doubt anything he can...stand firm..God is real, that is why the devil is tryin so hard to make u think otherwise. If you believe God sent his only son Hesus to earth to die for our sins on the tumawid and Hesus arose, and if you realize u have sinned and ask God to forgive you of your sins you will be saved..That doesn't mean the devil won't still try to bother you but just pray and God will help you...read the Bible and pray and you will draw closer to God, talk to him like he was standing right susunod to you, like he is your friend because he is your friend.
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King_Mickey said:
Don't worry =) God is always with you and earth is not our real home. God will not forsake you and He will always be there to comfort you and hold you in His strong arms. You can count on him to do anything. He even sent His Son (HIS OWN SON WHICH HE LOVES SO MUCH) to die for YOU! =) The only unpardonable sin is not accepting Him as your Savior. All other things, whether it be: murder, lies, adultery or whatever can always be forgiven when you mean it. God knows your heart. Go to church and you WILL gain faith. If you want to become a true Christian, there are three things that you must say with you mouth and mean with your heart.
1. Say, "God, please come into my heart."
2. Say, "I confess that I am a sinner."
3. Say, "I accept your Son, Hesus Christ, as my Lord and Savior."

If you do those three things, you are officially a child of God. It says in the Bible that the mga kerubin rejoice and have a party in heaven everytime someone becomes a believer. =) Isn't that neat? Talk to God constantly, even in your head. I talk to Him when I'm making breakfast. =) He will send his mga kerubin to fight any evil forces that are against you, and remember that God always judges and punishes sin in some way. If someone is prosecuting you for being a believer, let God handle that person, because you know He will. Your his child. =)

I have a small book, and it is called A Pocketful of Promises. It has letters from God to you. Let me read you one that you will probably like:

My Child,

I know you are struggling with doubt, but deep inside your spirit I have ibingiay you faith to ilipat mountains. Let my precious promises wash your doubts away. I will never leave you, fail you, or forsake you. I am always with you; you are never alone. When you feel like giving up, cast your care and burdens upon Me. Rest in my arms and trust Me to take care of all that concerns you. I pag-ibig you. Lift your eyes to the Heavens, for I am your help. Call on Me and I will restore you. Hope in Me, for I am here.

~Your Father
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 Don't worry =) God is always with you and earth is not our real home. God will not forsake you and He will always be there to comfort you and hold you in His strong arms. You can count on him to do anything. He even sent His Son (HIS OWN SON WHICH HE LOVES SO MUCH) to die for YOU! =) The only unpardonable sin is not accepting Him as your Savior. All other things, whether it be: murder, lies, adultery or whatever can always be forgiven when you mean it. God knows your heart. Go to church and you WILL gain faith. If you want to become a true Christian, there are three things that you must say with you mouth and mean with your heart. 1. Say, "God, please come into my heart." 2. Say, "I confess that I am a sinner." 3. Say, "I accept your Son, Hesus Christ, as my Lord and Savior." If you do those three things, you are officially a child of God. It says in the Bible that the mga kerubin rejoice and have a party in heaven everytime someone becomes a believer. =) Isn't that neat? Talk to God constantly, even in your head. I talk to Him when I'm making breakfast. =) He will send his mga kerubin to fight any evil forces that are against you, and remember that God always judges and punishes sin in some way. If someone is prosecuting you for being a believer, let God handle that person, because you know He will. Your his child. =) I have a small book, and it is called A Pocketful of Promises. It has letters from God to you. Let me read you one that you will probably like: My Child, I know you are struggling with doubt, but deep inside your spirit I have ibingiay you faith to ilipat mountains. Let my precious promises wash your doubts away. I will never leave you, fail you, or forsake you. I am always with you; you are never alone. When you feel like giving up, cast your care and burdens upon Me. Rest in my arms and trust Me to take care of all that concerns you. I pag-ibig you. Lift your eyes to the Heavens, for I am your help. Call on Me and I will restore you. Hope in Me, for I am here. ~Your Father
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dogzilla564 said:
I have had simalar problems. TAKE MY WORD, God exists, and he knows and understands your heart. When I worry about hell, I like to think of this verse:
John 10:28-29 ;
And I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand. My Father, who has ibingiay them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of My Father’s hand.

Once you have ibingiay your life to God, it is his. You will always be his. If every night you go through your araw and tell God you are sorry for all the sins you have done (try to think of each sin) then you will feel much better. God says that if we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins. He knows your struggle, and wants to talk about it. Just let him. None of us are perfect, we all sin, we just have to tell God, and not make excuses, and He will lift our burden. Try not to look to God so much as someone to be afraid of, but as someone to love. He laid down his life for us. He is our Father. Look to him as a dad. Feel free to ask madami questions, I pag-ibig to answer them. Praying for you.


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thank you so much :)
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Don't worry bout' it ;) my other payo would be to talk to your pastor, I'm sure he knows madami than me ;)
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gaby124 said:
go to the priest to ask him to forgve ur sins that is wat we catholics do! :)
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univers said:
Hello,

You have to hang out with the right crowd. If you are in a situation, where you are forced to be with worldly people, do not become mga kaibigan with them. Be at a distance, and be with them for a tiny amount of time at the most. Otherwise, their bad influence will corrupt your good manners. "Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners" (1 Corinthians 15:33). Proverbs 13:20 says:

He that walketh with wise men shall be wise:
but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

Also, make sure to pray three times each araw and daily pray for your enemies. For example: "God bless Jill."

I was so full of hate for someone yesterday, and I wanted to do something rash. I wanted to tell the person off, but the person was in the shower. My rage was building up, and I had an insane idea of knocking on the bathroom door. Nevertheless, then I prayed for the individual. I felt such pag-ibig for the person, and the pag-ibig was from God.

Regards,

Anonymous
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happyfeet1fan said:
god bless you!
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beachchick said:
God is always there for you!! i went to this thing called impacted the obx which helps out our comunity. i was talking to my leader and he told me that sometimes you suffer beacuse that is what the devil want. he also thold me that u have to be doing something good for the devil to want you to suffer that badly!! continue in your faith i am here to help if you need anything else!! you will be in my prayers!! on and sa pamamagitan ng the way happy fourth of july!! god bless america!! p.s also listening to christian music can help alot!!!
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DestinyGirl said:
Well just get rid of all of those fears and doubts!:D Satan is working on you, trying to turn you against God so he can have your soul. But you can't let him win! The susunod time you go to church, don't be afraid to raise your hand and ask the church to pray for you and if your church is anything like mine, then just go up to the front and let the Pastor and others put that annointing oil on you to rebuke Satan from your life. But you must do this with a whole puso that you believe Satan IS messing in your life and you need him out through the blood of Hesus Christ, because that's the only way to get rid of that old Devil! And don't be afraid of him, because when you stand with God, HE fears YOU!

I'll be praying for you because I know Hesus is waiting for you to come to Him with a repentive puso and open mind. Oh, and just get that sin out of your life! Don't let it rule you, YOU rule it!:D
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jennabug121 said:
I was just like you, and I was so frustrated with my doubts and sins. But you've come to the right place :). Well there are facts like no evolutionist being able to prove that there isn't a God. Also if you just stop and look around at the trees and nature you can just tell thaT IT WAS MADE sa pamamagitan ng AN INTELLIGENT MAKER. jESUS IS RIGHT THERE SUFFERING WITH YOU. aND THE FACT THAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR hIM MEANS HE'S LOOKING FOR YOU. Oh sorry Casp lock was on :) Anyway you'll find Him trust me :)
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hammy100 said:
I think you should stop doubting your self and
you will not go to hell also be madami happy and
i hope you live long too
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writer67 said:
be quiet and still my child, you are my child and i am proud, be happy and i am happy, laugh and i will be laughing with you, the strange drop from laughing is huging from the insides.let go of your hurt,as you write it and release it into a fire, so no others can see your note as it will be for me.you are a smart one, and you do too much worry.go help others ,give alms, write if you were one of the fishermen of men. but your alive,go and be happy with the pag-ibig of God echoing through every limb,and every sound. or pay a visit to a local hospital, or volunteer, you are special,time for you to ipakita others. and keep your chin up,your different. look pasulong to a poem or story.hope it dont rain fish!!! later;-]
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debbiesherman20 said:
Keep faith pray reaching calling out to God. Do not relent for he does hear you . YES he does child. Do not let him go he will not let you go. LISTEN to the small still voice.Be still repent stand firm for him for he is for you . BELIEVE KNOW keep your puso open for them child. They pag-ibig you so. I am saved and I was a wretch. O Holy Holy~ PRAISE them.
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