Sexuality is such a hot-button issue these days. "Are you gay? Are you straight?" But what do these tanong really mean? How can anyone really answer these tanong to the best of their ability, especially when we have people who are well into their fifties and sixties and still haven't figured it out?

I believe it was Alyssa in Chasing Amy who sinabi it best: "I came to this on my terms. I didn't just heed what I was taught, you know? Men and women should be together, it's the natural way - that kind of thing. I'm not with you because of what family, society, life tried to instill in me from...