I really need help with this...

I'm currently in a relationship with a girl. However, we're going to completely different schools susunod year, and I really don't want to break her heart, because she just doesn't deserve it. I want to stay together with her, but we won't even be able to see her anymore. So I really want help with this. Should I stay with her, or should I just say goodbye to her? And If I do say goodbye, how should I do it?
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This tanong shouldn't have been asked in here. Regardless if you say that you 2 are lesbians, your problem tackles "relationship problems" rather than homosexuality or anything that concerns the LGBT community. Try asking this in the "Advice" spot.
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But if she goes to the payo spot, she risks getting stupid comments. Here, that shouldn't happen.
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uy there, thanks for all the help guys, it meant a lot. We broke up yesterday, but we're still close friends. :33
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r-pattz said:
Give it a go. If you pag-ibig her and you still live near each other you should be able to make it work, sa pamamagitan ng seeing her after school and on weekends and holidays. I know several people who are dating people who go to different schools, and it works well and actually saves them a lot of drama.

I think you should definitely talk to her about your feelings though, because she might be having the same sort of worries. You'd be better off if you could work things out between you two and you should make sure she'd be as committed to the relationship as you.

And if school starts susunod taon and you do start to drift, if you can't maintain your relationship well, then break it off. But for now, if you do pag-ibig her, stay with her.

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jester616 said:
Will you two still have time together during the summer? If that's the case, I wouldn't break up just yet. Are your schools in the same general community? I guess I'm not sure why you two wouldn't be able to see each other at all.

Have you talked with her about susunod taon yet? How does she feel about you two being separated?

Based on what you've written, I wouldn't end the relationship just yet.
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Corgilover183 said:
I know a couple that is dating madami than 15 hours away from each other. If they can make it work, you can make it work?
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