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EmzLovesCheryl said:
Not a true BFF. One thing I've learnt is that a best friend isn't just someone who you're constantly with, have petty arguments with, sometimes asong babae about if you're in a bad mood, and take pictures with because they're there, which in reality, is what most people have. But there are true best friends, who will be there for you no matter. And through your life, you may find that your true mga kaibigan aren't necessarily the ones that you named your best mga kaibigan at first. You got on, but your friendship didn't really need thinking about. Why? Because it didn't need thinking about. It was just you, talking, getting on, before you went off to the person who you feel like you're 'supposed' to be mga kaibigan with. And eventually, you realize that you should grab your true mga kaibigan while they're there, even if it means you have to stop hanging round with the ones who like to make a joke of you, and you feel uncomfortable around. This is just one example of course, but there could be so many situations. But this one is something that happened to me - recently. I've always had my best friend who doesn't go to my school, and I didn't think that anyone would be able to match our friendship, I had a hard time with some of the girls so when the offer of mga kaibigan came along I grabbed them, and I didn't feel like I could leave. And then when I knew I had a choice, I had to make the right choice, I had to take the chance to actually be with the ones who would care. And already, in this one week that I've been with them madami than usual, they understand me better than the others ever did, and I put up with them for a year. BFFs do exist, just not always where you expect them to be.
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