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Okay so I'm 15 years old and have a major crush on one of the guys I've known since I was 10. We are really great mga kaibigan but I don't know f he feels the same way back. I'm not looking for a serious relationship or anything but I'm debating about weather or not I should ask him out. Alot of my mga kaibigan have told me that I should wait for him to ask me out because he is the guy but I think that maybe that's to old fashioned and sexist. On the other hand I'm afraid that if I do ask and he doesn't feel the same way it could wreck a truly amazing friendship. I've had a crush on him since we were 12 and I just can't contain it all inside of me any madami but I don't know if it's worth risking our friendship. Please help me you guys! I feel like I've turned everywhere else with no success. If you give me ligitamet payo I will give you props! :) lol
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Me_Iz_Here said:
(Thinks about the amazingly similar situation I'm in)

Tell him you like him first. If he's okay with it, then ask him out. It shouldn't ruin your friendship if he's a really good friend. Just do whatever YOU think you should do.
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A lot better than my very long answer... lol.
Sandfire_Paiger posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Thnx, I think that's probably what I should do and I think I know that somewhere inside of me but it still is hard to do.
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Good luck with your situation!
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jayem801 said:
If uu really like himm... like a lot, well i think uu should just come clean ,just tell him how uu feel , .... tell him that if uu guys can be madami then mga kaibigan beacause if uu just keep it all inside it's going to kill uu madami trust mee' i was in this problem too... if he doseen't, at least uu had the guts to tell him... && be pround of yurr self (: if he dosen't feel the same way ?... Then just be mga kaibigan but don't let that get in the way... There lots of guys out there "a lot" maybe there sum one like him but a little better... and maybe he is just waiting on a perfect girl like you <3
i hoped i kinda helped c:
♥- Kamie
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It did sort of! It was very motivational:)
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Sandfire_Paiger said:
Well, I'm not very experienced with boys, considering I'm 12.

You've known him for five years. Well, its just me but, I think you would probably know him well enough to at least predict his reaction. Take that into account. And if it seems like it would go well, ask him out. Who cares if its 'traditional' for a guy to ask out the girl? And if you have no idea how he'll react, then I would still think about it carfully and most likely ask him out. If he says no, and things are awkward, just do things like you regularly do, and try and get things back to normal. Thats the best payo I can give! Hope it works out well!


sa pamamagitan ng the way, you might get better sagot here:

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Being as like you sinabi you don't have a ton of experience with boys, that was a very good answer :) it's just hard because the way he is he is never really open about any type of serious emotion and I get nervous sometimes talking with him about it.
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creepyboy7 said:
follow your dear heart! that is the dearest payo i can give you at this dear moment!
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Lol, thnx
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Animetama said:
If you don't wanna ask him out, then look for signs that tell you whether or not he likes you or not. Like if he talks to you alot or leans foward whenever you guys talk. Im sure it'll all work out in the end. Try flirting yourself too, if he responds, then I'm sure he likes you on some level.
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Thnx :) but I'm a terrible flirt! Lol
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lolz then practice >:P however he flirts with you (if he does) flirt the same way!
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