will I?

Condescending Willy Wonka speaks the truth

GURL (`ー´) calm your hormones
what are you looking for in a relationship?
((Love))
((Trust))
((Care))
OR you just feel jealous of your mga kaibigan who have boyfriends and you don't? ┐( ˘_˘ )┌    
being in a relationship is not a competition or a game that you just want to try and play with others feelings,it needs patience and maturity understanding and respecting each other.

You're 13 for goodness sake, you don't need to worry about having a boyfriend. You have years until you have to deal with that. I wasn't in my first relationship until I was 16. You should be worrying about having fun and being young while you still can.

You will not forever be alone. One day, even if it takes a few years, someone will sweep you off your feet and you'll be in a relationship. There are many ways you can get into a relationship, even if you have to go on a dating site when you're 18.

I found the image below on Fanpop.

I have a solution:

- Watch anime
- Find hot anime boy
- Appreciate hot anime boy
- Fall in pag-ibig with hot anime boy
- Obsess over hot anime boy
- Cry over hot anime boy
- Become hot anime boy
- Get girlfriend easily because you're now hot anime boy

There. Solved.
Or you'll just have someone feel sorry for you that you're a lonely fangirl that only loves this one anime dude and then they'll get with you out of guilt.
Worked for me...

But, in all seriousness, you're what, 12? 13? Calm your tits. Even though you probably don't have any right now. You're too young to start to date. Wait until you've matured a bit so you don't rush into things and end up like one of those chicks on Dr. Phil that are 14 and pregnant.

Oh please....u r only 13, I'm 15 and I dont have a boyfriend and I dont want to. U hv mga kaibigan and thats enough. A boyfriend in my opinion is the one who makes u alone, sometimes u cant spend time with your mga kaibigan and family. Dont worry! Enjoy life......u can enjoy the best with your mga kaibigan only!!

I understand how you feel- I was in a similar place for a long time. I didn't get into a real relationship until I was 18 and now I'm engaged. It was lonely getting up to this point, but I don't regret it because I'm with someone I really really love.

I'm not saying you should wait forever like I did, or that the years leading up to it were easy- they were hard and lonely and I cried a lot about it- but try not to be so hard on yourself about it. You're a sweet person, and I'm sure there's lots of boys out there that will like you. You'll find someone, whether it be as soon as tomorrow or a few years down the line.

It may not seem like it now, but I'm sure it's bound to happen.


Whatever you do, though, please, please, please do not get into a relationship with a guy just so you can have a boyfriend. I've seen a lot of people do this and I've only ever seen it badly. Relationships take a lot of time and effort and you should save that time for someone you like.




In short, try not to be so hard on yourself. I doubt you're going to be alone forever!~

Don't worry too much about dating people. Dating someone for the sake of dating someone is rarely a good idea and rarely ends well. But to answer your question, no you wont be and you are only 13. You have A LONG while left to go.

But honestly if you want to petsa someone, look closer to people who are already good mga kaibigan or just wait for it to come to you rather than searching it out. Youll find a better relationship that way tbh.

But for now, if you are feeling alone, try hanging out and growing stronger bonds with your mga kaibigan or find comfort and enjoyment with yourself (depending on if you are extroverted, introverted or ambiverted).

You want me to make you feel even better? I'm 25 and I've never even dated, kissed, had sex, or anything. I'm a fucking loser. This adult still likes Anime and Disney as well?! Gut me. Kill me. Goddamn. I don't deserve to breathe. I don't deserve to live. Why the fuck am I not pleasing men and having their babies? Holy shit!

I do not understand the rush of having a gf or bf. I rather just take my time and get a gf rather than rush into it. It's utterly pointless and stupid tbh. Focus on school,friends and family. Havng a relationship is NOT that easy or always that fun.

Nah, you're young yet. You got plenty of years to come.