Why do some people put blame on others for their own behaviour and not do anything about it!! instead of complaining, shouldn't they be responsible for all the difficult things that happen to them?

It's cause some people are born and raised pampered, they were never told no, they were never told about taking responsibility. And when they get older, they feel that they are owed something and don't have to take responsibility for their own fuck ups, because for them, it's easier to blame other people than to just accept their own fault.

It depends.

What Windwaker said. I also like to add that some people blame their autism, etc., for their sinabi fuck-ups. Mainly the ones that are able-bodied and competent enough to live a normal life.

"Shouldn't they be responsible for all the difficult things that happen to them." No. Some shit just sucks. Sometimes awful shit just happens and there's nothing that could have been to prevent it and nothing is gonna change it.

As for blaming others; that kind of depends. For example it's 100% fair to blame people like asong babae McConnell for putting them out on the streets. Single handedly this man decided on $600 stimulus instead of $2000. Depending on where one lives $600 isn't enough to make rent. People who (due to covid--100% not their own fault/something they were responsible for) Nawawala their jobs are struggling. That $2000 could have been what kept someone fed and off of the streets.

So it really depends on the situation. Generally I think that the answer to "shouldn't they be responsible for their own hardships." is no.

And I kind of think that it's inconsiderate to be all, "do something instead of just complaining about it." There's nothing you can do if someone dies. There's nothing you can do if you find out that you're terminally ill. And it isn't as easy as 'just think positive' when you're hit with something THAT awful. I think that 'just think positive' is a little ignorant. And 'stop complaining and do something' is extremely insensitive. Especially if you're dealing with someone who has depression or any other type of mental illness. Some people literally don't have the mental and/or physical tools to 'just do something about it' even if they want to. And so often times they resort to venting and crying for help which comes off as complaining.

"But some people complain about everything!!!" When you're depressed af little things seem so much madami profound.

And lastly, with something like depression. It really isn't easy to 'just do something about it'. One of the worst things about depression is that it saps away all of your motivation and drive to do ANYTHING even the little stuff. So taking on the big problems??? Depression also saps away hope and if you feel hopeless you wonder what the point of even trying to 'do something' because it feels like it won't amount to anything.

So yeah, not a tagahanga of the 'stop complaining and do something' mentality. Iffy on the blaming thing because sometimes there are people who can outright cause a person's struggles (abusers, bullies, etc.).