Silence is a super common side effect of a fight. You both think us up to the other person to admit she's obviously Nawawala her mind. So why should you be the one to inimate truce. Because you can keep feeling angry and burt, or you can decide you'd rather have fun and feel happy. God let's see. E-mail her call, write a note-just make it clear that doing nothing will get nowhere. Do what you have to in order to get this bail rolling if she doesn't respond see bellow.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!............................................................................................................................................................ ......... ........... ............................... ..............

The word punish might bring to mind larawan of six consecutive weekend grounded with no TV. IM or sleepovers because you accidentally borrowed your dad's drill to crack walnuts on the antique dinning room mesa because jeez: sometimes a girl fancies snacking on walnuts. Banish that thought Seriously though pick a dare for your bud to prove she's sorry. Put every condiment in the fridge on a atsara and tell her to eat it. Have her walk up t the hottest guy at the pool, and tell him she's the neighborhood cannonball champ. Think of something just painful enough to be funny but not hurtful. When she's done pinkle swear to be note careful with each others feelings. Then go out for nachoe-topped with every con? At the fixins bar. Maybe not.

If it's a little madami complicated than that, and forgiving her becomes a chore on your to do listahan first decide if a fixer is really the best way to stop up the steam coming out of your ears. tanong Was this a premedirated Ice reyna ilipat or was she totally unaware she'd driven a stake through your heart? Was this the first time your friend did whatever she did to make you mad, or does she do this to you all the time: For a repeat offender see Fight Fixer No 10: If your friend's offense was a first-time flub, why not chalk it up to a she's - only - human mistake and forget about it? Turning the other check on her out-of-character moment is mega nature and will help you "walk away" mentally, which miraculously squalishes the drama you're feeling emotionally. In other words, don't do darn things. If only finals were this easy.

Yes, fighting is bad, fighting is immature, fighting is painful. But that doesn't mean it isn't a good option. But let's get this straight. Sure you're going to fight, but you're not going to manuntok bite pull hair, scratch, slap faces, whack windbreakers on each others bare backs of do any thing associated with cheesy car fights. Instead you're going to have a unan fight, screaming. "This is for when you mined my new blouse" or "I hate it when you flint with my boyfriend" with each swing. Get out those aggressions, girl. It a unan fight doesn't work for you maybe get two boys involved and have a chicken fight on their shoulders in a pool. The point is to fight to end the fight, without ugly bite marks on you arms of an eyeball that feels like it's been scooped out with a spoon Touche.

This Fixer is about working it out sa pamamagitan ng working out. You're both going to sweat it out side sa pamamagitan ng side until you decide together when enough is enough. A little healthy competition will replace the spat you're having our who did what and whos fight and all that other pop-pycock. Race around the school track, do pull-ups, push-ups, sit-ups, counting around, until one of you drops. When you're sweaty fatigued sick of it all say, "I'm sick of it all especially being in a fight with you" Ten bucks says she'll share her Gatorade in agreement........................... ..........................................................

Who's going to juzz this big bairy attitude brawill; You are she is Oh! want hell her it's time to deal, and ask her to come to your house in cruddy clothes. Saturday affternoon, Pre-date, birst open your piggy bank and buy two dozen eggs and two kendi bars. When she arrives, give her a dozen eggs and yourself a dozen and have an egg toss in the "" yard. 'Win' sa pamamagitan ng operating and throwing the egg right at her T-shirt or jeans, If she looks at you like you've cracked, 'egg' her on to your head. If you're both nor covered in egg and laughing within a few minutes, you blew this assignment. The kendi bars are for you guys to eat afterward as you glow in renewed friendship, and yolk.

What do you do if you're so completely over this rift between you two yet, she still won't cave; it's tempting to want to bail from the friendship and let her wallow in her stubborn anger. But that's the easy way out if you think you've done your share in trying to mend the situation you're probably right. But you can't force her into anything. So, you'll wait. Try not to bold it against her if she needs madami time than you to cool off. She'll come around and when she does then you use one of the following Friend Fight Fixers to bury the batchet.

Say you tried a Fight Fixer but despite your best efforts: you're still not over it. We'll call this "right residue," which is just mistrust wearing an everythings OK now mask. There's a China-sized crack of doubt that she might let you down again or maybe she's a tiny bit worried you're Luckily you can swat away these emotional mosquitoes with a contract. On a piece of white paper use black pen to write a listahan of ways you promise to be good to each other. Then carefully tear the perimerer so all sides are rough-edged. Scranch the paper into a ball unscranch it and dip it in room temperature tsaa until it's an old looking yellow color Gently lay it out flat in the sun and when it's dry, you'll have an official homemade. Bill of Friendship Rights Suggestion. Make two so you don't fight over who gets to keep it.

Depending on what's gone down, a formal apology may be the only way your friend can atone for her sins. If you need a sincere "I'm sorry" to get over her infraction that's OK. But you might have to ask for it. She can't read your mind and changes are she feels bad about the fight too. uy maybe she's reaching Friend Fight Fixers through 5 right now trying to map out her apology strategy. Make it easy for her. Send an e-mail explaining that you just needed to know it won't happen against so it's she were to apologize and mad make a propreties that'd he enough for you.

All right, you're upset, Maybe you're furning. Maybe you'd like to brand your friend's hair in an industrial blender. That's fine. Let yourself be But be mad in a pair of running shoes while you jog a mile. Be mad at your unan while you pulyerize those teeny inner. Cruellar on your friend because that can create mutual madness which would really blow things beyond proportion. The heat of your feelings: will cool down and, when you're done seeing red, simply call Miss Knuckle head and tell her what's up: Did you know you really bummed me out the other araw when you blurted my business in front of everyone? Can you promise not to do it again? Great, thinks Enough said.

That's right. lunok your pride, and let it slide - even though you absolutely, posilutely know for sure that you did so pay her brick the five bucks you borrowed from her. She's peeved, and you're left wondering if she's having a brain lapse or something. So why should you say "sorry" and paliguan her with gifts, darn it" Well, let's put this in perspective, shall we Look is it really worth losing a friend over a five-spot: Offer up a hard-to-resist compromise" "I'll tell you what let's searf down five dollars worth of Baskin Robbins, my treat, and call it even Steven." If she insists on having it her way cough up the $5 and consider it an investment in the freidnship. Even if she is having a brain lapse she's your bud and was nice enough to float you the moolah to begin with. Oh, and susunod time you pay her back on a loan ask for a receipt Nicely.

For some girls, gifts are the way to go. It may sound totally materialistic but uy she's your friend and, some bud can be bribed as we all know! If it takes a little sweet nothing to get her to stop scrunching her face at you as you pass in the halls, then get to it. What won't work? Easy to-get-gifts like a "nice" candle or frame. Sorry What will work? A framed picture of the two of you in better times. Or a candle you made just for her at one of those fun craft-making stores. All other gift ideals are subject to details only you know about your friend. The madami personal, the better: balutin your package in homemade wrapping paper (sponge-paint some plain, white paper), and present it ti her in private With any luck she'll be unable to fight back those fears of joy

Sometimes a thousand words aren't worth jack. Or maybe you're not a word person, which means saying or Pagsulat an apology would be like hiking up saging Reel Mountain in six inch stilcttols. Non-word people are usually either visual-artsy or have a thing for math. And since calculating a serious algebra equation isn't all that heart-warming (unless you're watching Good Will Hunting), this is for the art lovingal. Draw paint, sketch a picture that screamer. "You're awesome and I'm such a Party McBee for madami seeing the hurtfulness of what I did" Mount the picture or a piece of poster board and at the tuktok center expertly write her name in oversized block letters, Deliver it to her with a smile. If your masterpiece doesn't muster peace, it's back to the drawing board, Lady Picasso. Read on

Heart-to-heart talks stink like dog doo. That's not the popular opinion - especially if you tune in to the 7th Haven or any of those hokey pelikula on TV's Lifetime network for women -- but it's a realistic truth for plenty of people. Too many emotionally charged chats are just nerve - annihilating yuvky, muscfests of overly sensitive feelings. You have to tell her why you wish you could turn the Erch a Sketch of your wrongdoing event upside down. But since you can't send a letter to get it through her noggin how great she is, how much you cherrish her, how you are - from now until you're both grannies - going to be sensitive to whatever it is she's upset about. Put it on pretty stationery, and suso mail in with cutsie stickers and a pool stump. She should call the minuto she reads it.

When a friend lets you know she's upset about something you've sinabi or done (or she thought you sinabi or did), it's up to you to clear the air. Even if it's a misunderstanding - wait, especially if it's a misunderstanding - you've gotta step up to the apology plate. Admitting you're wrong isn't easy, but if you do a hat dance around her now sensitive feelings, the drama will just grow. To deliver a sincere apology, look your friend in the eye and tell her. "I am so sorry." Now hug, cry, do what you do, then go eat something atery-clogging and talk about not-so-serious, stuff, like celebs and makeup: You've had enough serious discussion for one afternoon.

1 point
Let the argument simmer for a while, sa pamamagitan ng leaving it alone, and avoiding communication. If you talk right after the fight, many things are sinabi out of anger. However, do not wait too long as allowing bad feelings to brew for too long creates a situation that becomes madami difficult to make up. So after the fight calms down, make sure you talk to the person before its too late. After you do that, sit down and say your sorry if you the one who caused the fight. Even if it was the other persons fault, just take the blame so you will make up sooner than later.
2 point
Take time to reconsider if this person is really a friend if you're constantly in fights and always making up first
3 point
Reflect on what you may have done. Read past emails, chats ect. This will help you understand their point of view.
4 point
Give in and apologize. The other person probably wants to do it too, but it shows that you're a courageous and dedicated friend.