Quick tanong for Fujoshi.

I'm not sure if I should ask this tanong here or not, so here goes.

Yaoi fangirls, Fujoshi, or whatever you like to call yourselves, what's your reaction to the majority of you girls being seen as creepy/perverted/Fag hags? Maybe I'm the only one seeing this stuff around, but I'm a little offended.

Ya see, I've seen some people around, saying we objectify men, and treat gays like pets and all that bullcrap, but I don't think they really even know us.

We're seen as being obsessed with twinkish men because we like traps. We're also seen as fag hags. To the people who don't know what fag hags are, it's the type of girls who treat gay men like pets. We're seen as creepy and portrayed as having shit-taste in men and drawing.

I myself think of this as prejudiced and biased. Even madami so, because of how this has caused misogyny. I'm not even that warm to the idea of being called fujoshi, since fujoshi translates to 'rotten women/girls'. Oddly enough, and at the risk of sounding like a feminazi, I think this is also a matter of sexism, seeing how no one gives a damn about men who like yaoi, or men who like yuri, just the girls.

Yes, I posted this to get your opinion ladies, and I also posted it to open the few eyes that aren't aware of this. If you have only skimmed through it, or only read half or a little, I highly suggest you scroll back up, and read the rest before answering.

Pic related. It's a portrayal of how all yaoi fangirls are seen.
 Quick tanong for Fujoshi.
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xXxAngelessxXx said:
Oh my gosh! Really?! I always thought Fujoushi means girls who like yaoi... Yes...It's not fair to us ~ssu! It's actually very offending!...Ugh..I just...I don't know what to say ~ssu...

...I WILL say this though: even if they keep saying that, I know what I am and what I'm not. So I won't stop loving yaoi ~ssu.
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 Oh my gosh! Really?! I always thought Fujoushi means girls who like yaoi... Yes...It's not fair to us ~ssu! It's actually very offending!...Ugh..I just...I don't know what to say ~ssu... ...I WILL say this though: even if they keep saying that, I know what I am and what I'm not. So I won't stop loving yaoi ~ssu.
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High five cause nobody's gonna stop us from liking yaoi
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Agreed ~ssu!! -high-fives back-
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Fujoshi stands for rotten women.
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^That's SUCH a rotten and desrespectful name to give, ne?! It's totally unfair to us!
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Laxus_Dreyar said:
SO WHAT,WE pag-ibig YAOI!?WHATS SO BAD BOUT THAT?PEOPLE NEED TO KEEP THERE OPINIONS TO THEMSELVES!NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR YOUR SH*T,SO KEEP THEM TO YOURSELVES!AND QUIT HATIN ON US.THOUGH SOME YAOI HATERS DONT REALLY NEED CAUSE SOME OF YOU ARE NICE OTHERS NOT SO MUCH
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 SO WHAT,WE pag-ibig YAOI!?WHATS SO BAD BOUT THAT?PEOPLE NEED TO KEEP THERE OPINIONS TO THEMSELVES!NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR YOUR SH*T,SO KEEP THEM TO YOURSELVES!AND QUIT HATIN ON US.THOUGH SOME YAOI HATERS DONT REALLY NEED CAUSE SOME OF YOU ARE NICE OTHERS NOT SO MUCH
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sorry i repeated some thing
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oh and mean yaoi haters,your the fags
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HATEN*
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missracoon said:
I know what you mean, guys who like girl on girl aren't treated this bad... at all.
I'm personally not offended sa pamamagitan ng people who I don't have a close relationship with and I find the idea of people trying to insult someone unreasonably on the internet laughable, but if some idiots are really saying this type of thing to people they don't know...
Yep, that pretty damn laughable. While there are girls like that, saying that ALL of us are is plain stupid.

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JasperIsCupcake said:
While I am not a girl,I do believe I can shed some light. The reason the general public doesn't fully accept yaoi fangirls isn't because of sexism. It's because they can't accept that people have fetishes. I do not agree with the statement that nobody gives a damn about yaoi fanboys. The male fans actually receive a lot of crap from both the general public and female fans. I recently nagkomento on a post about how any yaoi that portrays two older men in a romantically sexual relationship doesn't count and that fans of that should get out. If anything, THAT is the sexist. I know that when I don't like a fangirl, it's because I know she'd bash a real gay couple. A lot of girls I met that like yaoi don't like any gay man that isn't a total twink. But then again,I'm just a gay man. I don't know how the strait mind thinks.
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IamKyon said:
I totally agree with you.
I get annoyed sa pamamagitan ng the fact when other guys or even girls watch porn/hentai, they never get judged, but we are always treated as shit. Any other fangirls are treated nicely, just saying that they are just overexcited for something or pag-ibig it much more, then why get biased about us?! And when people talk shit about us, when they even don't know what we want and what we look in Yaoi for, it really boils my blood. Some people even have tried to force their opinions on others, talking like Yaoi is all about sex and rape and whatever the shit like that, they first need to look in mirror. They don't get every story, every character is different. You judgmental people can only see that rape and sex shit and miss out on real story-lines, real characters and their real feelings. Authors Pagsulat Yaoi mangas and stories are not some idiots! They know much much much madami than you judgmental creeps about how to write a story. They need to think thousand times before extracting the story on paper. If you can't appreciate their work and support them along with their fans rather than forcing your wrong opinions on others and insulting them, then get the hell out of Yaoi fandom!
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mayo134 said:
Fujoshi stands for rotten woman.....
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nanaxchan said:
hmm.. thats a good tanong , yes i kinda get offended being called perverted but i don't really give a damm about it because is what you are interested in. Different people have different type of likings , most of my mga kaibigan would be saying stuff like "ew you definitely watch gay porn(yaoi)" and yes i admit i watch gay porn(yaoi) because i don't see what's wrong with it. :)
*did i answer your tanong >.<
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YukiGirl said:
okay

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