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PLEASE HELP ME AND MY FRIEND!!

So my friend used to cut herself. Then the school counselour found out and sent her to those rehab places (idk the technical term) where they helped her stop. When she got back she was mad and was saying she doesn't have any problems and she only cuts herself because she wants to. I was glad that she was better now, but then today I noticed cuts on her ankles. She's cutting herself there now. But nothing is wrong in her life! She has a boyfriend who loves her immensely, mga kaibigan that pag-ibig her, she does good in school, and her tahanan life is fine. I'm getting really annoyed with the cutting, and we're getting sick of each other, but I'm still worried about her. What do I do?
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Eline_K said:
Automutilation is a very serious condition. Even though nothing seems to be wrong with her life, emotionally she could be in trouble. Depression can occur with anyone, even people with nice lives. Depressed people often deny they are troubled, and claim they don't need help. What she needs is professional help.

The best thing you can do is talk to your school counselor. Tell him/her that your friend started to cut herself again and that she's denying having emotional problems.

She might get upset with you 'telling on her', but in time she will be grateful she had a friend who cared enough to help her.

Good luck to you and your friend!

Hope this helped,

Eline
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izzysawsome said:
Well, Try to find out why she cuts herself, maybe it was something in the past or maybe she's worryed about something in the future, or she's scared of something. And then when you find out why she cuts herself try to fix the problem. Tell her parents. And if she doesn't have parents try to tell the gaurdin of her. Or try asking her why she cuts herself. I hope I helped ;)
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