On a scale from 1 to 10, how stupid am I?

Okay so there was this chatbox somewhere on the web. And this guy starts talking to me. But then in a dirty way that. Those guys that you usually block immediately. But this guy, I just didn't block. I kept talking him out of the dirty and tried to have a normal conversation. It was hard, but I kept going.

So then I gave him my msn. I first asked him if he had hyves(a dutch facebook-like thingy that I don't have) and he did, and there was this pic of him holding a six pack serbesa at a party...

So now I've made plans with him to meet. It's on a Sunday at noon so not at night, I'm not THAT stupid =P.
My question;
If it's a creep, how do I flee?
If it's not a creep, how do I know if I can "trust" him?

And most of all...
Can someone explain to me why I did this? I mean, I'm really, really responsible if it's about the web. I want a job in criminology and if my name or litrato appears on any kind of shady site, I won't get a job anywhere, AKA, dead.

Call me a drama queen, but is there a chance that this is, like, faith and that he turns out to be a sweetheart and an awesome person?
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Not that its any of my buisness but only out of curiosity, what did you decide to do?
Prawls8612 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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well i told my mga kaibigan and they thought i shouldn't go as well. so then they planned to go out that araw that exact time. we'll go watch Bampira suck with all of us so i couldn't say no to that! so i decided to call him off and now he's ignoring me =P so i'm glad i didn't go! =D
Chaann94 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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Wow awesome! Great choice!
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Goldilottes said:
Darling, the last part is highly unlikely :(

I read a while nakaraan a few artikulo of true stories of this exact same thing happening to 16, 17, 18 taon old girls and they are either raped or murdered. and it really scares me. Don't meet him. I have really bad feelings about this for you cos of the talking dirty part. I get the feeling he's an old perv who probably only stopped the dirty so you'd agree to meet with him.

I heard about a 17 taon old girl who met the perfect 18 taon old boy online, he helped her with all her problems and posted all these really gorg pics of himself so she'd think it was him, and so they agreed to meet after a while and he sinabi he'd be in the park holding a red rose, and when she went to the park, there was a pervy 40 taon old man holding the rose where he sinabi he'd be. but thats not the worst part. the worst parrt is that he was also holding a knife, she could se the glinting silver in the sunlight becasue she was hiding in the bushes to see if he turned up. She sinabi she ran all the way tahanan and told her mom. the man was later arrested and was discovered to have raped a 16 yera old girl the week before.


If you decide you have to go to meet him, take your cell, tell your mom where you're going, have pepperspray in your bag, take some mga kaibigan along too, and make sure its a busy public place with lots of people everywhere, don't let him lead you off anywhere, whoever the fuck he turns out to be.
And be warned, I see this ending badly. Sorry.
and about the 1 - 10 thing, I'd say a 9. I only knocked one off because you had the sense to double check on here for advice, so clearly not even you are sure about it.


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Agreed :)
minimew037 posted sa loob ng isang taon na ang nakalipas
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wow okay... well thanks so much for the advice!
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Insane4ever said:
Easyest said.....you are screwd.....that was realy dumb,but everyone makes mistakes,just dun meet with him....DONT DO IT
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Prawls8612 said:
DON'T DO IT!!! DON'T MEET WITH HIM! This will end up very badly if you go! Please just don't go! You hear the stories everywhere about other girls meeting these people and they end up dead or raped! Just don't go! If he keeps talking to you over the internet just block him! And tell your mum or a friend or a councellor at school and they can help you. So please just don't go.

You probably did this because you got carried away but please, do yourself, your family, and mga kaibigan a favor sa pamamagitan ng not going! And I'd give you a 9 and not a ten because you asked for someones payo but please just don't go! And I'd tell someone if he were to keep talking to you. Please don't go!
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sehdt said:
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but to be ligtas you really need to tell him you can now not make it and dont go what ever you do. He may be a creep or worse. There are some horrible men out there. Its the only ligtas thing to do. As for why you did it well we all do things which when looked at later were very silly. I am one of the most boring people in the world but in teens and twenties I did some really silly things. So it can happen to us all.
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Sheetal1256 said:
U noe wat ill give u 8.5 4 ur stupidity....no pls don't meet him...these guys like net guys keep 'use n throw' kinda attitude 2wards girls:/c'mon now DON'T GO!!!!
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