Relationship Help?

well let me get this straight
there are 2 guys lets call them A and B
so guy A is your boyfriend
B is a close friend
ok..
my payo break up with your boyfriends. (first thing) uy to be honest, it better to not be in a relationship then be in one where it feels like nothing. seriously. it not anout you getting another boy. it about you being happy. if you are not satisfied with him then BREAK UP. it not about like you know how ppl think if you dont have a BF/ GF you're in a way not cool. this issue i would consider as a separate one. seriously. break up.

as for your friend, this depends on a lot of thing. mainly, how much you value your friendship with him. cause as far as i know, when you get together with a close friend then break up, you aren't as close anymore. there is this sort of awkward tension. so it really depends.
GOOD LUCK!

ok, so with the boyfriend (which you want to deal with first) if you dont like being with him anymore, there is no reason to stay with him. leave him. better no relationship than a dead-end one. and dont stay with him just cause your afraid of being alone, thats no good.

once youve dealt with the boyfriend, then you can start to work out your feelings for your friend. the tanong to ask yourself are: do you realy like him that way? are you willing to risk your friendship with him? would you be ok with being just mga kaibigan with him? takeing that step between mga kaibigan and dateing is a huge risk, cause once youve taken that step, you cant go back. you could breakup and go back to being mga kaibigan but it will never be the same between you two, it just wont. then again if you realy like him and being just mga kaibigan with him isnt ok with you anymore, then you realy dont hav much of a choice, you either take the leap or become unhappy with the relationship and drift apart.