HELP!!!!!

Honestly? I know you probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing you can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants.

I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true mga kaibigan and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like you for who you are and insults you and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would you want or need a friend like that?

True mga kaibigan would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real mga kaibigan give you a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give you any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but you can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you.

Sorry for the cold, hard truth but you can get so many better mga kaibigan that treat you well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause you heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.

Truly a good true friend would NEVER EVER say anything so horrible, I had kindof the same problem when I moved from America to New Zealand Every one made fun of me, the way I talked mostly, I started to sit with a group that looked friendly enough, then one araw we were talking about what our favourite things were and I sinabi I wanted to be a vet, one of the girls, for some reason sinabi that I couldn't hang around with them because I was ruining their "social credit". I learned soon learned that I needed to find better mga kaibigan then them. Pretend that you don't care and shrug it off, it's hard, but after a while she will get bored just teasing you about something that you don't care about. Good luck and i know you will find better mga kaibigan if you just keep smiling

Talk to the other friend. Ask what's going on and find out why she's doing this, wether it's on purpose or because she got the wrong impression of you. If she tells you off than you'll know who the problem is, and if she realizes that she was wrong than ask her to help you talk to your friend. If you can't talk to the other friend than try to get to your friend again. if she won't talk to you than perhaps she simply wasn't as good a friend as you thought she was.

I can say that you're friend isn't very nice I mean "the problem in her life"? COME ON! She obviously dosen't want to resolve things.......but that dosen't mean that you can't ipakita a little of that self-defense in you. You can stand up for your self! Don't let it get to you. And everybody knows that the ones causing problems for someone is madami weak than the victim.(Right now you're the victim.)

i think sara is right. you need to let her go, if she thinks you're the problem in her life, then just leave it at that. right now, i think you're the good guy right now, just do this: susunod time she calls, make her listen to what you think of all of this. but if she still hates you, then it's her lost...PS you sound like a great friend:)